Author: Dante

First Time at Jakarta Spas

About 6 months ago I was reading on mysexpedition blog and that is when I first found out about the Jakarta spas which also double as strip clubs / brothels. I had some interest in checking out Jakarta anyways, but now I knew I had to go. I really didn’t know what to expect because so often you read about how great a place is and then when you show up it doesn’t at all live up to the hype. This happened to me a lot...

More Visits From the Virgin

Considering my first time with this girl was up there for best days of my life I was very hopeful to get a return visit from the ex virgin I talked about in last post. She is a solid 7 and that is a big win from a dating site, then add in that she was a virgin and just an all around awesome girl I really needed to see her again. It took ten days of texting but she finally came back over. Pretty much...

Debating Indonesia vs Philippines for Long Term Living

Clearly I really love the Philippines and I could be very happy spending the rest of my life there. But after 3 years I wanted to travel around and make sure I really was in the best place. Lately I’ve been trying out Jakarta, Indonesia. I have been to Pattaya and Bangkok neither of which worked great for me. Though I gotta say knowing you can get a very good $20 bj at any time still has me thinking Bangkok wouldn’t be so bad….. those damn...

Jakarta’s Blok M: WTF Was That?

I spend a lot of time reading up on places before I go there and sometimes they are similar to how I imagined them, other times they may be very different. Nowhere has been more different then I was expecting then Jakarta’s Blok M. I have read about Blok M for a couple of years now. Jakarta has always interested me but I am lazy when it comes to traveling and hadn’t made my way over yet. Well now it was finally time to come...

Met a Virgin on IndonesianCupid

Living in Asia you have so many memorable days but some will be ones that you truly will never forget. For me yesterday was one of those days. I met this very cute 19 year old on IndonesianCupid that spoke quite a bit better English then most girls in Jakarta but she still wasn’t great at it. However she was a very happy and fun girl that loved to joke around. Girls like that are right in my wheel house. After only a few days...

Failed Date with Rich Chick in Jakarta

Indonesian model Siva Aprilla on Instagram Third day in Jakarta I am walking through the Grand Indonesia mall which is really nice and huge and pass some very light skinned girl. I can’t tell if she is white or Indo…… but she is hot and I give her my number. An hour later we are texting and I find out that she is a flight attendant for a private jet for some rich dude in Saudi Arabia. She is half Saudi and half Indo and spends...

Treating Molluscum Contagiosum STD

So when I first moved to the Philippines I lived in Angeles City for 5 months before moving on to Manila and Cebu. I had read online that lots of guys were banging girls in Angeles without a condom and most were saying they never caught anything. I decided, perhaps unwisely, to not wrap up with some bargirls from the more established bars as they get weekly checkups. With freelancers or smaller short time bars I would use protection. My rule at the time was basically if...

Arriving in Jakarta Day One

Even though not to much happened on my first day in Indonesia I still like to blog about day one in a place, as much for my own good as the people reading here. I think of this as my journal sometimes. When I arrived at the airport the immigration lines were very short, I quickly found a money changer but the rate was quite bad so I just traded in $40 instead of $100. I had read to take a Bluebird Taxi and there were quite...

Bareback, Condoms, STDs & HIV in Philippines / SE Asia

I have been living in South East Asia for around 4 years now and had lots of unprotected sex in that time. When I first moved here I was living in Cambodia and always wearing condoms with working girls. Then as time went on it was ‘well I don’t see her working much so I will try without.’ Or ‘she is really hot I’ll make an exception.’ Eventually I pretty much forgot condoms even existed. I really don’t care about growing to be 70 years...

Where To Retire In Southeast Asia – Ebook

Want to retire in Southeast Asia but undecided on which country? Single guy (but not for long?) This ebook is for you. It talks about the visa situation, women, infrastructure, value for money, food and lifestyle in the SE Asian countries I’ve lived in so far – Cambodia, Indonesia, the Philippines, Thailand, and Vietnam. This 70 year old retired millionaire married Thai porn star Nong Nat For my loyal blog readers, below is a free chapter. The rest is on Amazon. If you don’t have a Kindle...

Experiences with Bad Doctors in the Philippines

I do a fair amount of google doctoring here because I don’t really trust doctors in the Philippines. One time I had an STD called molluscum contagiosum and 2 doctors misdiagnosed it as herpes. The 2nd doctor that did this hadn’t even seen what I had. I told him I had ‘some bumps’ and he pulls up a google image search of herpes and starts pointing at it saying this is what I have. I was 100% sure I did not have herpes at this point,...

One Month Living in Bangkok for $980

I am not doing very well at reaching my $1,500 a month allowed budget but I guess that is OK. Pattaya came in $350ish under and now Bangkok comes in $500 under. 37 baht ($1) Chicken cashew nut & rice meal @ Terminal 21 food court A few notes, once again I do not count any travel costs in this so no plane ticket, no taxi to the airport, this is a budget for what I would spend if I lived there. I did include a...

And I Thought Filipinos Were Rude | Thais Are Worse

In the past I wrote a post about how rude Filipinos can be. But it is more of a rudeness by ignorance than rudeness by malice. With Thai people there is a whole different level of rudeness. Thai people suck To be fair I do think Thai people are a little better about the lack of self awareness type things that are annoying about Filipinos. They may stop in a crowded walkway from time to time, or try and get on an elevator before people get off,...

Filipino Mail Order Brides? 30 Success Stories

We live in a hot take society these days, and small things can get blown out of proportion in no time. After reading a recent Reddit thread it hit me: Filipina women off Filipino Cupid are basically the modern day mail order brides. Of course it isn’t just Filipino Cupid, it can be PinaLove or any other dating site around the world where you can log and and chat with girls from far away. This can actually be far more efficient than how mail order bride...