Women – Philippines vs Thailand vs Cambodia
It can be surprising how different the women in the Philippines, Thailand and Cambodia are.
Actually there are two that are polar opposites and one that is kind of in the middle.
I’m not talking about looks because that’s subjective and everyone has different tastes for Asian girls. I personally don’t find Thais that attractive, however most guys would rate Thai women the hottest of the three.
But from a willingness to hook up with foreigners in casual relationships, and overall horniness level the Philippines is a 10 and Cambodia is a 1.
The vast majority of Cambodia women are either saving themselves for marriage, or are working girls.
In the Philippines you have many girls that fit in both of those categories. But you also have a very high percent of Pinays that want to be friends with foreigners, and if their foreigner friend from FilipinoCupid is interested in them they don’t say no.
The communication factor also helps. The demographic in the Philippines that speaks the best English is definitely girls under 30 because they spend so much time on Facebook, uploading selfies to Pinalove or listening to American songs. They also are just a very horny race of people and are so much better in bed.
The majority of Cambodian girls I was with were terrible in bed, whereas you kiss a Filipina on the neck and she is instantly turned on.
I have had to tell Filipina girls that I didn’t want to go any more rounds that night. That’s how horny they are. I doubt that would ever be the case with a girl in Cambodia, or if it is it’s a very rare thing.
Thai women are kind of inbetween. In the major cities there will be plenty of farang hunters, or on sites like Thaifriendly. The Thai girls I was with were somewhat into it in bed, but they seemed to be doing more acting, where as you can tell the Pinays really want it. For me as a sexpest that makes Phils the best country in Asia to live.
Thailand is known as the ‘land of smiles’ – amongst expats that becomes a sarcastic in-joke that Thais always smile to your face but talk bad about you behind your back. I got that impression a bit when I was there. Maybe I needed to get out of the tourist ghettos.
I am sure there is some of that in every country, but it seems worse in Thailand. Filipina women seem to have a much more genuine interest in foreigners.
It should be noted that all of my experience with girls in Cambodia and Thailand was with working girls. But even with prostitutes in the Philippines there is a different hornyness that was not in the other countries.
This is one where living in the Philippines dominates and both the other two are quite far behind. English is widely spoken in the Philippines, particularly in the cities and with people that expats come in contact with.
In two years in the country I can really only remember a few times where knowing the local language would have been very beneficial. I am sure there are some other times it would have been nice to know it, but it has only cost me some time or money very rarely.
I actually thought there was a little better English in Cambodia than in Thailand. I am judging both countries only by touristy areas, if you go to the provinces of either I am sure there would be little to no English.
When I arrived in Bangkok I had to ask three people that worked at the airport where a bathroom was. You would think people that work in the airport around tourists would have a better grasp of the language but apparently not.
If you’re consider moving to the Philippines and never leaving it would be kind of nice to know the language but not a necessity.
By contrast if you were planning on staying in either Thailand or Cambodia long term it would definitely pay off to learn the language.
Also compare Philippines vs Thailand vs Cambodia for:
- Summary – Best country in Asia to live?
Looking forward to the post on STDs by country…
judging by the time i got it thailand has a very high chance of being where i got the mollusc
Yup I got it in Thailand too.
I have to reply to this i usually dont bother but its a good one.
I also live in SE Asia and I would say your summary is very accurate.
I have told myself to move to Phil but I am a bodybuilder and thailand has the best
gear when it comes to Testosterone ect.
I like Cambodia but i can only find a few choices of gear.
Other than my concerns your summary on girls is accurate, The Cambodians seem to be more conservative with sex and relationships. So i always find my self back in Thailand for everything but my girl is Cambodian and i might move there and just bring my gear from Thailand like i always do.
Get a life. do you want to build your life around your muscular development? How quick can you run 5 K’s or is your big muscles any benefit to your life your life other than other than your vanity?
I can only wonder how many tatts you have to complete your image.
Been in the Phillipines now for over seven months and have been with no girls. I could live in this place for ten years and not get one single hook up. Oh, you can’t say things like that, very, very bad, no good. If you want to meet a girl, you must be sure that you want to marry her, but the reality is that all just ignore you, and all can be seen walking around with their seventeen year old looking boyfriends. Had I been in Thailand for the same duration, I would have been with around 130 different girls ( no joke!) . The Fillipinos are brainwashed with Christian fundamentalism and sex is a vary, vary, vary bad thing that you should not talk about, because it is very, very, very bad. Also, the spoken English in zthsiland is quite good, despite almost half the world saying the contrary. Correct English is spoken, not trashy stupid Hollywood film American slang. As far as Cambodia is concerned, forget that also. The so called ” girly bars ” in Sahnoukville are left with virtually no customers.nof you ask an attractive girl over the age of consent ( about 19 ) to go with you it is almost 100 percent guaranteed that she will say no, and point you in the direction of her 35 year old Aunt.
Try dating sites, the ones that are into foreigners tend to go online. They can be shy out in public.
lol you dont talk about sex, you just do it
The thing with Asian girls (and guys) is they’re totally different in private and public, they’re hyper image / status conscious. They want to ‘save face’ and look good to others, not like sluts / mongers so they’ll act like sex is a taboo thing, that they’re faithful, pious, etc., because they’re terrified what others will think. And because they look up to their elders way too much – the older generation are more conservative.
But then secretly, in private, they’ll release that repression by being really promsicuous, cheating a lot, banging around or using whores. Look at all the short time hotels around, karaoke places with private rooms, sideline girls, teen pregnancy rates, and so on.
I agree Thailand is better, way more hot girls around. But you should be getting laid very easily in the Philippines as well. Just ignore them when they say sex is a bad thing, get them in your room somehow, and the sex happens.
Also agree on Cambodia.
You asked for a “bathroom”. Wrong. You probably needed a toilet? Then they could have helped you.
I can only speak of my experience with pinays. I married a filipina, didn’t realize how money hungry she was. She had sex with her boss because he said he would give her a raise. She got a raise just not in salary. She is terrified of telling her mom, friends because of fear of being labeled. She thinks I should just forget about it because she only did it for the money. I only found out because the bosses wife saw the texts and confronted my soon to be ex. Moral of the story..pinays are not all pious and faithful because of their faith. Most owe loyalty to currency and social status.
The worst thing about filipinas is how emotionally flaky they are. One day they love you and want to have your babies, within 24 hours they’ve moved on. They are very ‘in the moment.’
Yes, they are very sweet and nice. But it is often understated how fickle these women are. I’ve found some to be quite clingy, but more often than not if I stop paying attention to a filipina after I’ve banged her then she’ll move on with light speed. I kind of admire their resilience, but it’s also a bit creepy too.
I agree with alot you say.i ALSO MARRIED A FHILLIPINA after 1 month of being here.I was quite tired of internet girls in Ukraine,South America and else where so came to the philippines.Amazing.Met a girl in the Jungle and asked her to marry me the first day.Weve been married now for over 4 months.Happier than my 4 US marriages and I dont see a divorce in the making.Im disabled so i had to act quick.As long as I take care of her shes happy. Im 63 and shes 32..Im still glad I did it my way..My little girl from the lost tribe is always horny and if not fucking me shes fucking the pillow.Her family of 200+ dosnt seem to mind.The thing I guess that i lucked out on is one night I asked her (why me).Her excuse was that no one else would accept her.Like WoW.I just said.Thats how I felt in the US.So we found each other.No real regrets .So Far.
Wow, so wonderful. I am so happy for you both.
for non-pro girls easy dating, filipinas are easier than thai girls, correct?
Once they’re in your room, yes, but with flakiness / the infrastructure it can be harder to get girls there
I dunno about that. My friend is in Bangkok and he’s smashing it. He finds it much easier to meet girls logistically than the Philippines (because of infrastructure). He also says girls are much less flaky and more responsive online.
The flakiness of Filipinas cannot be understated. It is off the charts and extremely annoying and unavoidable. Be prepared to book a lot of dates that fall through and have plans canceled on you. I’ve been here for 6 months now and I’m fed up with the flakiness of girls in Manila. I’m leaving next week.
spirit maze, do u live in makati and most of these girls who flake on u also live/work there? because if they live in other areas of manila (e.g. quezon) it’s understandable they flake, as transportation there sucks.
I live in Makati. There’s no pattern to flakiness. I have had women come from as far as laguna and cavite just to meet me, and women who live blocks away from me flake. It has nothing to do with location, if a filipina wants to meet you then she’ll make it happen. I would say that women who live in Makati probably have more options (closer to the expat hubs), so would tend to be more flaky.
The issue is these women have options and being a white dude in Manila is nothing special. Market saturation is painfully obvious, but there’s so much ‘groupthink’ when it comes to the Philippines being a pussy paradise, expats are in denial about it. Expats are too scared to admit that the Philippines actually isn’t a cake walk, because they think it will reflect badly on their sexual prowess. ‘If you can fog a mirror, you can get laid in the Philippines’ is the usual mantra. The reality is if you can fog a mirror, you can bang a single mom in the Philippines. Try messaging a cute 19 year old honey from Makati and you’ll get aloof responses, if you even get a reply at all.
I’m a good looking 29 year old white guy and I don’t find it easy in Manila for quality notches, I am very skeptical of other guys who claim that Manila is a pussy paradise. It’s not. Lots of grinding for pussy has been my life here. I have had some great lays, I have had some awful lays. Practically none of it come easily and I had to work for pretty much every single one of them.
Dude why are you so focused in manila? If you really want to bang a hot girl that bad you should go to angeles or subic, money doesn’t matter to the girls there mostly I suppose if what you mentioned earlier that you’re young and good looking is right then getting laid by a hot chick wouldn’t be much of a problem for you ’cause based on my observation looks is what matters the most for the girls there😁😂
Well hello there Diane thanks for the comment and welcome
i do bang hot girls in Manila. I’m countering the internet propaganda that it’s easy to bang beautiful women in the Philippines. All I’m saying is it takes work and can be quite challenging. Yeah, I could move out to the jungle and bang the farmer’s daughters there, but that’s not really my vibe. I’m a city boy.
It’s always good to get a woman’s perspective, but I’m assuming you don’t bang hot girls in the Philippines so I struggle to see where your opinion/point of reference comes from.
Both places are city 😂 anyway do as you please i’m just giving ya an advice as a filipina 👌😁 have a nice day!
If all you want is sex I can see why your experiences lack any consistency.
Yeah Thai girls all have smartphones and mobile 3G there is often better than Philippines wifi 😀
So there’s more girls online on dating sites / apps and more responsive once they’re on there.
Even with texts in Philippines sometimes they don’t get delivered by the network or a girl won’t have load to reply, or she can only reply to Globe but not Smart, or some other BS
Then in BKK they have the air conditioned skytrain and subway, air conditioned buses, traffic still bad but a bit better. Overall much easier and nicer for girls to come over to your place versus sitting in a jeepney
Bangkok here I come!
One thing I am unable to understand is if its easy to lay regular girls in phils, why bother spend money on girls in the pro scene….jspill, you mentioned somewhere half of your lays in phils are paid…I know you need to try some pros to review for your website…but how come 150+ are pros…..if its really easy to get laid regular girls on a regular basis….
it’s actually not easy to bang hot girls in the Philippines. Their expectations for what they want in a guy are much higher than you’d expect. The easy sex in the Philippines is with the fatties and the single moms.
I actually bumped into Jspill down at burgos yesterday and had a very good P4P experience with him. P4P is more convenient and less of a headache. It’s not something I do much of, but I can definitely understand the appeal.
Here’s the key:
It’s “not easy to bang HOT girls in the Philippines”
As Sprit Maze said, banging girls here is EASY. Banging [or even locating] HOT girls is a real challenge. Why? Because Pinays have some of the worst genetics of all mankind. There are a lot of thin girls but most of them look like their mothers beat their face with a pan when they were infants. The result is a ton of 5’s and 6’s. 7s are rare. 8s are even rarer. 9’s are godamn Unicorn riding Mermaids.
Girls here on average just aren’t attractive. That’s a fact.
Depends what ‘regular’ and ‘easy’ are. You should be able to get laid 2-10x more than back home, where some guys might have sex once a month, or once a year, some guys only have half a dozen sexual partners before getting married and having kids.
Let’s say 3 – 5 girls a month, my friend here in Manila just happened to mention he had 4 Tinder girls in the last month, regular looking guy, 33 years old. And I met a guy the other day who said 30 or so girls in the last year, he was in his mid 40s. Both don’t like to pay. That’s still a lot more than at home.
But if you want say 15+ girls a month, it’s going to be really time consuming and some aren’t going to be that hot. I notice once guys go above that threshold and aren’t paying then a lot of the girls aren’t that hot, it’s more about just getting notches, and they end up spending all day on it.
Which is fun for a while, a nice challenge you should do it when you first move here and I did too, but get back to me after your first year or so…
Some hookers are really hot and cool to be with, great in bed, nice people etc. Sure some are awful but they’re easily avoided and in the minority. SE Asia overall has friendly girls and that doesn’t suddenly change when they become hookers. The pros here aren’t like western ones.
Yeah lol yesterday I’m leaving a restaurant and bump into Spirit maze, he’s on his way to meet a hooker he negotiated a good price with on a dating app, 1500 php ($30).
I tag along and she has two friends, I ended up doing a 3some with the other two, and one had a great body the pics are on instagram at the mo. So I invested literally zero time, was a good price (gave each girl 1500 php) and pretty hilarious.
It’s really worth emphasizing that it is extremely easy to get laid in the Philippines, just not with the quality ones. That’s where the confusion comes in. Expats jump onto forums and talk about how easy the Philippines is….yeah, depends on your target demographic. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though so some guys may be genuinely happy with the abundance of available and easy troglodytes in the Philippines.
Jspill, hopefully our price negotiation skillz encourages the rest of the hookers to start lowering their asking price. 1500 seems far more reasonable than the usual 3500.
who cares about quality. the only question is: can you get it hard? as long as ypu got an erection, she s good enough. admittedly, you ve more difgiculty fucking uglies , and getting it hard, as you agr. too bad it goes together with the lowering of the qyality of women available to you.
lol…so for 2 week tourist regular guy like me….looks like the probability is low to get some 7 or 8 girls from FC/PinaLove or Mall Game…:))) …all the girls I will contact in manila online or mall might already be contacted by the expats there….sounds not easy then..:) By the way my friend above average looking Indian guy is coming along with me..what are his chances assuming all other things equal to regular white guy..we are 32
Start messaging a dozen or so girls about a week before you arrive, line up dates for each day, use every dating site and app you can, FC, Pinalove, Asiandating, DIA, with Tinder paid version you can set your location as Manila, and Skout lets you set a new location temporarily
This is a guest post by an Indian guy he did fine – https://www.nomadphilippines.com/indian-guys I have indian mates they did fine too they got laid free in Royal disco and with online girls. Philippines is quite Indian-friendly
Some of it is just down to luck but give yourself as many options as possible
guess…thai girls should be relatively harder to get compared to filipinas….
Yeah as Jspill said, maximize your opportunities by spreading yourself out on all the dating apps. It’s a numbers game. The more girls you contact, the more you increase your changes of finding a hot one who’s up for it.
Generate lots of leads and don’t just focus on one girl. Filipinas can ditch plans at the last minute, so you always want to have a back-up plan.
Unfortunately it doesn’t just fall into your lap in Manila. You have to put effort in.
spirit, from which site/app u got most of your lays? and have u also tried day game there?
tinder, okcupid, filipino cupid, skout. I’ve done day game and i have some success with it, but it’s often soooo slow to move to a bang. I’m not patient enough for it. Online is far more efficient for quick lays. Night game is good too, but i’m not really into the smoky club environment and loud music.
How many girls you´d say do you swipe right out of like a 100? I have spent days going without swiping anyone right, then also in Cebu there aren´t too many girls on tinder anyways. I might be really picky but as you said it´s really tough to get a quality one. Annoying flaking of girls that aren´t even too hot made me only go for quality now.
1/75 or so I swipe right on in Cebu. Girls here are mostly ugly.
whats the deal with separated girls on FC? they might be not legally divorced and its a risk to engage with them as per filipina laws
A small risk that I would just YOLO and take but yeah there was this famous horror story that happened to an expat – http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-505873/British-man-facing-seven-years-Filipino-jail-adultery-goes-hiding.html
It was made into a locked up abroad documentary http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/locked-up-abroad/episodes/forbidden-love/
Then again he got her pregnant, it escalated from there
You can ask the girl are you divorced yet, not tell the girl your full name / not have it anywhere on social media, just bang once in a hotel then move on unless you get proof she’s divorced, or just pick another girl
I’m here in Thailand now
And my god
The girl in the airport concierge was so pretty
Where can I get young girls who accepts doing it live without condoms ? Any tips dude ?
Do hotels in Thailand allow you to take in girls ? Are they girl friendly ?
Yes no issues at all, it’s not like Vietnam
are you fine with potential STDs from working girls if you dont use condoms?
I met a 20-something girl at Terminal 21 Shopping Mall near Asoke. Later that day, I took her to Hooters in Nana. Then we went to the club and danced for a bit. Afterwards we went back to my Airbnb rental on Soi 12. WHEW LAWD. CIM with her three times that night. I stayed 5 days in Bangkok and she chilled with me 3 of them.
Go to the mall. There are plenty there!
was she a pro or semi working type girl? how is it that one can meet and fuck immediately?
Plenty of horny university students out there who’ll bang you on the first night. Not a daily or weekly occurrence, but it’ll happen, doesn’t have to be a pro or semi pro.
He might have meant he met up with her at Terminal 21 after chatting on a dating site / app, it’s a common first date spot. Very easy for girls to get to, right next to the BTS and MRT intersection. You see lots of couples there that look like Thaifriendly dates.
is it reasonable to assume most of us are people with average or below average career/business prospects in the west either due to lack of skills or interest 🙂
Lack of interest, certainly.
generally, with a few exceptions, the dregs of the West end up in the Philippines
Sure you get all the dregs, pedos, foreign criminals etc. but the West is going so far downhill, especially Europe, that you get a lot of normal people too
There’s the whole sexodus / MGTOW / redpill scene, a lot of those guys move to Asia, then all the digital nomads working remotely. Although you could argue the classier ones end up in East Asia
I have never met a guy who is into Asian women who could be even remotely considered normal. Myself included.
haha…but some of the well educated and beautiful east asian women…china, korea, japan…or top class….they make great wife for LTR
yes someone who is into south east asian women for more than sex is usually not normal :)….even the ones who go after chasing easy sex with low class south east asian girls often uneducated and sex workers…obviously not normal 🙂
most western guys in east asia are english teachers :)…..only a small percentage of people have good jobs or business
Then there are all the other foreign criminals hiding out in SE Asia that are wanted by INTERPOL and the FBI. They can freely walk around and continue their scams by paying off corrupt officials.
most of FC girls are poor from provinces, ugly, single moms or low level call center, office workers…..
welcome to the Philippines
Well, somewhere among these girls, you’ll find at least a few gems. What surprised me though, is why foreign guys start a relationship with these girls? i meant, try and have a decent intelligent conversation with them and seriously, it’s like talking to a 10 year old. Totally world apart. They have as much knowledge as Hello fucking Kitty. I just don’t get it. That’s why i just stick to the boom boom and tell them to leave before they start a karaoke in my fucking bed.
I seriously admire these guys that have been in relationship with these type of girls for more than a couple of months. I mean, how do they put up with having dumb and silly conversations for that long? this only leads me to think that, perhaps these guys are just as dumb.
Maybe I’m an outlier, but I can throw in my .02. Been with a filipina for almost 3 years. For a while I was concerned that she wasn’t going to be able to engage me in topics I like talking about, general global current events, history, science etc. Her math is at times lolbad as well. But over time I made it clear I need a little bit of intellectual convo here and there, and she’s been happy to oblige. She pays attention to whats going on there, tiny bits of stuff going on om US, and seems genuinely engaged when I start talking about any random topic, will ask questions, seems to enjoy learning something from me, doesn’t feel talked down to at all. So I get to feel smart (which always makes a guy feel good) she learns something new and is attracted by my intelligence (not a genius just know a little bit about a lot of things)
And her lack of knowledge about WW1 or climate change is more than made up for by her funny, warm, loving personality, her devotion to me, her appreciation for me, great in bed. It seems guys want it all, an 8 with a grasp on string theory, acts like a virgin but a dynamo in bed. If you ever meet a chick like that, I promise you, she won’t be interested in the likes of you or me anyway.
Like I said, maybe I’m lucky and my gf is an outlier, that’s totally possible. Or maybe I am just a realist unlike so many who obsess over what a girl doesn’t offer instead of the multitude of things a girl can or does offer.
When I was in my early 20’s I used to think my dream girl was super smart, looks not as important. Now in my 30’s I realize looks are nice, intelligence is overrated (assuming not an absolute idiot), and personality is everything.
it’s useless trying to pretend that filipina pussy is anything else but the most basic pussy out there.
Didn’t say anything to the contrary. In fact I said my case is probably unique in the filipina dating world.
Having read some of your comments here I know that we are vastly different types of humans with different outlooks and goals in life.
Just curious, why does everyone feel the need to trash filipina intelligence? Does it make people feel smart? If guys want to date high IQ women, why are they in SE Asia? If most are there just to have as much sex as possible, as is obviously the case, why are we sitting here criticizing things about the women that have nothing to do with the goal of sex?
In my experience, which admittedly is quite limited compared to most here, I’ve chatted with seriously maybe half a dozen girls there. I went out of my way to screen for good english, a degree, not looking for a meal ticket, etc. And the girls I got weren’t dumb. Perhaps when the only thing you screen for is looks and 18-24 year olds, you may get dumb girls. Shocking…
How many hot 18-24 year olds in the US could explain global warming or tell you who the vice president are?
Anyway, you are right, it’s not fair to pinpoint the women because the men are no more different. Hell, majority of locals in PH are simple-minded.
I’ve meet 100s of girls over a few months period and i don’t screen girls, just take them out for a meal and have a banter. If the mood is right, it’s boom boom time. Otherwise, it’s a pleasant meal but mediocre chat.
Don’t get me wrong, i don’t hate Filipinas. just stating a fact and something that becomes tedious and annoying over time.
One positive note i can say is that most of the PH girls i’ve met may not have any academic achievements but they were certainly very street-wise. They sure can out smart you with their lies and scams. I’ve falling for some of it too, hehe. I say that in a positive light because at least they have a worthy talent to be a sales person to survive successfully.
No idea what US girls are like but i’m pretty sure you’ll find dumb ass anywhere but on different levels.
And you are wrong, not all hot girls are stupid. You just need to visit East Asia or (Western and Eastern) Europe, imo.
Maybe there in lies your problem. You don’t screen girls. I’d guess (if you’re finding girls online) you find someone with a cute pic, 18+, and the rest is meaningless, which is probably why most of the girls you meet are vapid. If you’re meeting chicks live in malls, then for sure you’re going purely off looks.
I’d think if you’re getting tired of the boring level 1 chat, you would start screening and selecting for things that would make the convo better, considering you seem to want that.
I can speak first hand for US chicks, if I were going by looks only and 18-24, picking up at malls, you’d be able to put laugh tracks in the background of any attempt at a deep convo. Shit would be absolutely unbearable.
because men consciously and subconsciously are resentful of easy women. We want the easy sex, but we simultaneously hate the sluts
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not asking for a genius or whiz kid. Just someone with some basic general knowledge of world affairs. Most of them didn’t even know who Ferdinand and Imelda Marcos is. But they certainly know a lot about reality stars and celeb gossips.
When i was in my early 20’s i used to think my dream girl was super beautiful, intelligence not as important. Now in my 30’s i realise beauty doesn’t last and intelligence and personality can sustain a good long term relationship.
My gf certainly knew about Marcos, she actually taught me about some of that history early on.
What age range girls are you dating/banging? If 18-early 20’s, I’d ask you to imagine the types of replies you’d get if you were in a mall in SoCal going up to random cute 20 year olds and asking when the Civil war was, who Jimmy Carter is, etc.
You act like we don’t have a celeb worship culture in the US (I’m assuming that’s where you’re from, please correct me if I’m wrong). Maybe you forgot which country invented the Kardashians, Real Housewives of xyz, etc. What demographic do you think watches that shit?
Well, you are lucky to find a pretty one with a brain. That is quite rare so hang on to that precious.
I’m from the UK. And yes, I agree the US are importing and broadcasting a lot of dumb ass entertainment and media shite to the world. Ironically though, many locals i met in PH don’t really like the US (because they tried to colonised PH. At least that’s what they think?) but they have no problem digesting their US celeb worshiping culture more so than anywhere in Asia.
Hell, its’ the only Asian country where basketball is hugely popular.
Oddly, Ph feels like Mexico though not as dangerous? unless you go down to Mindanao.
Some of the FC girls initiated messages with me and asking my number and want to meet me in the first few messages…I mean without developing any sort of knowhow…Lol….does it mean they are scammers or hookers or trying to get a free meal :)…I am treading cautiously….
Nah not necessarily
They are probably just horny and want a good boning. One good thing about SE Asia women is they’re horny.
I don’t know if my comment isn’t late but one thing for sure that Filipina are
most understanding , willing to give everything to the Man that they love.
Yeah they love their man. The one from whatsapp, the one in Australia, the one with the tat, etc.
Hey Jspill, just curious…which Asian country do you think has the best looking women, strictly speaking?
Well people rave about Korea and Japan based on the top models in music videos but realistically it’s too difficult to get those unless you’ve got a lot of game yourself, which is why Thailand and the Philippines are so popular. Hence why the Japanese and Korean guys all fly there too
So I’d say Thailand is best overall for availability of good looking ones and the Philippines for availability of ones that speak better English and have more personality and banter. They also are a bit more tanned and girl next door / Latina looking than Korean/Japanese girls, who have that pale china doll look. There’s also more variety in looks, whereas Korean/Japanese all look similar
Vietnam is a bit of a middle ground, more similar looking to the Korean/Japanese style and easier to pull, but harder than Thais/Filipinas
Yeah, more curious when just strictly based on looks, without consideration for English skill level, personality, ease of hooking up, etc.
I’m with you on the pale china doll look. It’s not something I’m into. Many girls in SEA , especially Vietnam, strive for the pale skin appearance by avoiding the sun at all cost, wearing hoodies and masks (pre-Covid) even in blazing hot, humid weather. These are tropical countries. There’s something wholly unnatural about some of the girls walking around with whiter skin than Scandinavians.
If you’re not into that then I’d say Thailand for the cuter girl next door look and a bit of a tan
The top 1% in Japan/Korea/China could be better strictly speaking but it’s not really worth going there to and trying to find them imo. What I did is go to Macau where in the saunas they have all those nationalities working there lined up for you to pick and choose, and Vietnamese, which were cheaper. I ended up picking a Chinese girl in Golden Sauna which is one of the cheaper ones, and saw a cute Japanese one in Familia Nombre Sauna, an expensive one
Appreciate your input. Lotta guys exaggerate their experiences and speak in too much hyperbole. But I’ve read a lot of your blog posts and comments and find your takes and interactions with others to be one of the most objective, reasonable and level-headed around. Thanks for giving us less experienced guys helpful pointers along the way.
@Jspill – You make a good point. Japanese and Korean girls are super hot but they’re not worth all the hassle it takes to get them in bed with you. They’re almost like western girls these days.. Many are bitchy and want to be wined and dined and make sure you’re a sugar daddy before they give u any of their sweet pussy. Japan and South
Korea have joined the first world so their expectations are high and they want a high status financial provider these days. If u have good game u can still bed them but if you dont have your shit together financially there is very little chance you will keep them. Been there and done that so can say from experience. I’ve screwed many Japs and Koreans but haven’t been able to keep them too long cos they’re too preoccupied with how much money you make.
@jspill Can you write about your experiences in Hong Kong and Singapore? Or if you know any good sources to learn more about the scene. Finding good info is harder these days with search engine algorithms and decline in blogging.
I wouldn’t recommend them really, I’d go to Macau if you want Chinese girls, lots there in the saunas, Golden Sauna, Familia Nobre, etc. Not much action or variety in HK or Singapore and it’s expensive for something decent, so is Macau but at least there’s lots of choice, many saunas each with lots of girls, and it’s a nicer place to walk around.
In HK there are some Filipina freelancers in discos, one is even called ‘New Makati pub’, but I didn’t see any young cute ones at all. Some other discos are Escape, Insiders, and Hong Kong Cafe
Went in the 4 or 5 gogos in Wanchai and they were bad. Those gogos are Thai and Filipina girls, and not young attractive ones or cheap, so why not just go to Thailand or the Philippines. Unless you really want to try a new country and have some dating site or Tinder girls lined up as well.
The mamasans are really pushy too. I finally found one ok looking Filipina in a gogo called Club Venus but she was 28 with a kid and it cost me $75 for her lady drink, my drink, and she did french kissing and let me suck her tits and gave me a lapdance (skirt stayed on). To barfine her and go for short time sex would’ve cost about $150 more so I didn’t bother
Rhine gogo was the worst one, this 30+ year old fat ugly chick was dancing, only girl on stage, mamasan quoted me 1000 HKD ($125) for sex with her in a back room of the gogo, which dropped to 800 then 600 hkd when I declined and was walking out. So I think I was being overcharged, because freelancers on websites are about 300 – 400 HKD
Walked around Mongkok and a Japanese style brothel didn’t let me in, no foreigners. Was accepted at a dingy cheap brothel with Chinese girls for 300 hkd ($40), but it was really bad. The pimp bought in a cute looking girl, who ran off, then two fat old ones I said no too, then an average looking one, which I only said yes to for a new experience in a new country. Was probably the worst mongering experience I’ve ever had. BJ with condom, then she wanted to put two condoms on me for sex and a condom on my finger if I wanted to touch her.
Most of the mongering scene is the online freelancers, there are websites with lots of girls so you buy a sim card and call one and contact one and arrange to go to their private building. Or you go to the Fuji building which is this 22 floor high rise where hookers live and you turn up and knock on the door and go into their tiny room. It’s pretty terrible and not fun at all.
This is one of the main sites http://miss148.com/eng/main.php?method=region&value=KN
I didn’t monger in Singapore, was with a GF but I know Geylang is an area with some ugly old street hookers as that was the only place I could find a cheap hotel. And I was recommended some expensive sex massage places which accept foreigners, but didn’t get a chance to check them out
Wow, a covered BJ is bad enough, but two rubbers for penetration and essentially wearing gloves to touch? Ludicrous.
Have heard nothing but negative things about gogo bars in Wan Chai. Would never enter one, given their reputation. Thing is, HK gets so much tourism that if they actually ran a legit operation and stopped trying to scam customers, wouldn’t business be more brisk and result in higher profits. Guess there’s not enough girls since they aren’t local so they try to take advantage of each new customer.
I was curious about those freelancer buildings. Saw a few videos of guys knocking on doors (not sure which bldg) and quite a few were really hot. I’ve been to HK before (didn’t do any mongering). Walked around a lot but honestly didn’t find the local HK girls to be very attractive, so was surprised by this. Fully aware though that the girls working are most likely not from HK but mainland China. But…same-same?
I’m sure the service is mechanical but the price seemed cheap at 400-500 HKD. Would check it out just for the adventure of it. Definitely would splurge and do the Macau saunas too.
Well, HK is not that bad. Gogo bars are, but those few clubs-discos in Wanchai are fine. And you can find what you need (up to 1000), including mostly Filipinas. There is planty of them, houskeeping and babysitting. And some Indonesian girls. Gogo bars and Lan kwai fong are a waste of time.
Singapore is really great, but for quiet family life. Or to spend some time with a quality girlfriend. There are some low cost ‘massage’ places, but not worth
@Jspill – I’m surprised you had such a bad time in HongKong. But good example of the old saying, “Your Mileage May Vary.”…..Most people I’ve talked to say they have a decent monger experience in HongKong. Also @Lockmaster did a good field report about HK for SMP a few years back.
I was in HongKong couple years ago and had a great time. I mostly mongered cos didn’t have time to spend on dating sites. I was with a friend so we went to Fuji Building with 22 floors of whores. It was a Saturday so there was a long line for the elevator. Once we got all the way up we knocked on every door all the down 22 floors to the basement. We took notes for the girls we liked and their door numbers and went back up and shagged 2 girls each. If you like light skinned K-pop looking girls, then Fuji Building is for you. My friend likes the darker Filipino looking girls but he found a couple there that he liked. But you’re right when you say the sex there is more routine and mechanical. But I still had fun. It’s also fairly cheap at about $60 to $70- USD. I found a couple Chinese girls who were very nice and eager to please and who seemed to really enjoy the sexxx. But most were more mechanical. But I saw a lot of 9s and 10s there. We went to Fuji Building twice that trip. Mostly PRC Chinese work there and dont speak much English. There are also other Fuji type buildings in HK but I forgot the names. Most of them are in Wan Chai.
We stayed in Kowloon near the Night Market behind Nathan Road. Plenty of freelancers there too. I grabbed freelancers off the street and had 2 threesomes but they kept trying to milk me for more money so wouldnt recommend the freelancers in Kowloon for threesomes.
We also went to GoGos in Wan Chai. We found some decent Filipinos and Indo girls that we ended up barfining and took upstairs. But it’s way too expensive. Cost $180- each and like you say, it’s not really worth it. But if you have some extra money to blow then it’s still fun.
We also went to those websites you posted. The Sex41 and others and set up appointments with the ladies and took taxi to meet up. Many of the girls dont answer their phones and dont speak English so we found it easier to just get the address and take taxi to the buildings where they live and found out that the buildings are like mini Fuji buildings with 3 or 4 floors of Chinese whores. So we’d just go and knock on doors and drain our balls once we find the one on online or sometimes we’d discover hotter ones. Most of these 141 online girls live in Kowloon area off subway stops MongKok, Yai Mai Tei, Causeway Bay, etc. Also reasonable prices too. An hour or more for anywhere from 250 to 500 HK dollars ($40 to $80 USD).
My friend loves dark pussy so we decided to venture into the ghetto ChunKing Building which is also in Kowloon. A lot of Africans, Arabs, and Indians live there and many of them sell pussy so my friend had to go. I wouldnt recommend going into this building since it’s a really rough place and you might not make it out in one piece. Tourists have been robbed and assaulted there before. But we made it out OK. My friend ended up screwing two hot African whores and I banged a decent looking Arab with a big bubble ass who let me do anal 😋…. Only downside was we smelled like curry and African spices for the next 24 hours but our balls were drained and we were satisfied. I think we had departed for Bangkok the next day.
But not sure how HongKong will be now after Covid and after the PRC takeover. HK may never be the same again. I’m glad we went when we did before all the chaos and drama.
This sounds absolutely epic.
Great posts Guido. Yeah it was ok to go once for a change of scenery
Hey all, I was wondering what happened to the SMP website. Only been once to Thailand last year and wish I had gone so many years ago. I had a young Viet girl friend in the states for over a year and that pussy was always wet and ready to go! So much good updated information on that site, it will be missed. I learned so much from you guys to enjoy my trip. Good to read some of you guys still out there living good. Jspill keep updating the site and enjoy your time where ever you go.
@ Onetime at SEA – Skins shut down his SMP website cos he no longer was making money and he missed the USA. He moved back to USA cos he likely ran out of money and he got tired or banging hot Asian whores. He said, ” There has got to he more to life than banging super hot Asian slut whores.”….Then he moved back to small town America where he can vote for Trump and find an Asian or latina wife. I guess the single man’s lifestyle can get to you after awhile. He lived in Asia for 8 years without visiting family or friends. Guess even hot Asian pussy gets old after while. Instead of graduating to ladyboys, he decided to just go home before his sexxx addiction got the best of him.
Some have said he got a major STD like HIV but there is no evidence of that. But many mongers have herpes and genital warts. Not sure if Skins ever had that cos he never said he did but eventually if u monger like porn stars and sleep with 200 plus whores it’s fairly common to get at least herpes or warts especially if you go bareback. Skins said he went bateback 90% of the time so not surprised if an STD scared him into returning to the USA. It’s just speculation but who knows…..
“Instead of graduating to ladyboys….”
The best line on this thread…😹😹😹
@Maxpower – Glad ya like my line. For some mongers with sexxx addiction, the next progression is “graduating to ladyboys.” I’ve heard it happening to other mongers who go deeper and deeper into the monger addict rabbit hole. Some mongers simply see themselves going out of control and decide to just go home before they cross the line to ladyboys. But some mongers end up tryin it one day and the next thing they know, they’re regularly screwing ladyboy bung holes while they jerk their Joy sticks. Then they tell everyone it’s not really gay cos Ladyboys are the “3rd Sex and Just Chicks with Dicks.” Haha
But obviously enough chaps are screwing LB’s or they wouldn’t be around in the first place. But nobody wants to admit it. But with these really high quality sex change sexual reassignment surgeries in Asia, and with these neo “handmade” vaginas, it’s super tough to tell when it’s a ladyboy once they’ve had the snip (cock &balls off). So I’m sure several of us have fucked post-op lasdyboys without ever knowing it. 😆😆😝
Most lady boys don’t have kids I wouldn’t think paesano. It can be easy to be fooled and another thing is clubs won’t let them in most places so they are usually out on the street trying to chase someone down haha
@Vitobravo – Hey Paesano… So true. Ladyboys dont usually have kids unless prior to becoming ladyboys they fucked a few women and got them pregnant and then decided to become a gay ladyboy. Papa becomes Momma with a surgically enhanced 10 inch cock !😆😆😝
Actually last time I was at Nana Plaza in Bangkok there were a lot of GoGos who allowed ladyboys to work there. Many of the Gogos had a mix of real genetically born women with ladyboys mixed in. But most had the snip (cock and balls off) which makes it a lot harder to identify them. But usually their deep funny sounding voices give them away. 😆😆
@Vitob – Hey paisan. Hope all is well with you and your Thai girlfriend and your Filipinas. Bet they miss your salami.
Yea nobody knows for sure what happened with Skins and his SMP site. It’s all speculation. But if his last posts were about Covid it could have played a role in his decision to move back to America. But one of his last posts was “”There has to be more to life than ”
Sex with hot Asian whores.” Not sure how he could get bored with fucking hot Asian snapper but guess he might have. He also was homesick cos he hadn’t seen his family or friends in America for over 8 years. There is also no doubt that his site stopped making money so money was likely a factor. But what ever happened I hope he’s happy and doing well. Who knows, he could resurrect SMP one day.
There are some Filipina’s online who promise cam shows but then don’t give them? Are these Flip girls on Filipina Cupid? Is this after u pay for it? Sounds like a scam. Fill us in with more details.
Yo paesano !! I’m ok and I’ve been remarkably patient with this whole covid situation but other times I want to get myself a boat and paddle back to asia. Even the border at TJ is closed till December 21 I believe. I dumped the one filipina that was giving me grief for the best.
I think more scammers in the phillipines now with covid and the recent typhoons. I talked to one friend of mine there and she said phillipines will open soon but I don’t know. I know Thailand is talking about moving to a ten day quarantine instead of 14 but then I read again that is for low risk countries and USA isn’t one of them right now🙄🙄🙄🙄
Yeah I know we talked about this before but unless it was for a family emergency like for a parent or whatever I would never leave and move back to USA from a paradise like Asia or places I’ve experienced in europe. No way Jose !!! One day I want to retire in Asia and be there more often. I would be missing the good times or my girlfriend way too much and these Americans cows do nothing for me.
I hope you are well bro and that the vaccines will allow us to travel again. Thailand’s top virologist says he doesn’t see this virus going into 2022 very strongly.
Sorry I changed my name again but it’s me vito from SMP haha !!
@Vito bravo – Hey Paesano, glad ur still doin good during this pandemic. Ur balls must be heavy like the rest of us due to this pandemic shit.
So u actually dumped ur Filipina girl? She must have been getting on your nerves. You have to get back to Phillipines as soon as it opens up to the USA again. I’m sure plenty of flip girls want to ride your salami….
I guess if you would have known pandemic was coming u could have stayed in Phillipines and been living there this whole time and been cremepieing hot Filipina’s while being locked down. Who would mind being locked down with 5 hot naked Asian ladies to drain your ball sack every night?!!!
BTW, do ya still have your Thai girlfriend or you dumped her too???
Yeah I’m maintaining my sanity slightly by staying busy and I couldn’t travel anywhere now if there was no pandemic so I’m saving money as much as possible and paying off bills. One day I’ll retire in Asia or somewhere. USA is getting crazy stupid all the time more and more.
There are still countries that you don’t need to quarantine and meet women like Latin countries and Africa.
Yeah I dumped the pinay because she was always whining and complaining over nothing. We fought once for like 3 weeks over the same crap so I had enough. I tried to work things out but she just got worse. Still got my girl in Siam but we’ve had our problems too. She’s gone down a few points on my list and needs to climb back to the number one position if possible. I still don’t know 🤔
Hopefully with these vaccines coming out we will see a slowdown in the virus. It can’t get no worse paesano
Is that really what happened ?? He came back to the states and shutdown our fraternity site for that reason ?? The bloody wanker haha. I don’t know how he could ever get tired of living la dolce vita (sweet life). I can understand if its a money issue or you miss your family but I would never get tired of being over there and i wouldn’t be happy coming back. I’m never happy coming back. Skins last words were about Covid i think.
Be careful of some of those Filipinas wanted to give you a cam show and then they don’t give you one at all.
Sooooooooooo, I was planning a pretty involved weekend with a few Filipinas and Eastern Europeans. I sit here in a bar with 5/6 (barely) Filipinas and noticed that regardless of score, I am not enjoying the game as much as I thought I would. Maybe my standards are too high. But I realize that I actually like hanging around you social deviants. Freaking Guido and his comments have me rolling. Jspill and his patience to my weird IG comments. And yes, once I was allowed to lurk on SMP. Flipping gold, I get to read somebody else’s adventures. Deviancy at its finest. Anyway, thanks for the great commentary people but I have become disenchanted with snapper in general. No, LB’s are not on the menu. No freaking way…well at least they are feminine…something about Wham, Careless Whisper… puts me back in the mood every single time. But I am not gay…well ok..I guess.
I had the same thing, 7 straight years of the single man’s paradise was amazing fun, bargirls and regular girls, then I got a bit exhausted with it around 30, started wanting to have kids, and have two now. Whoring around is good fun and great for self confidence, and it satisfies the evolutionary impulse to spread your seed for a while, until your primal mind realises no kids have resulted yet, that’s my theory.
Lol, JSpill that is probably the most truest statement. I feel like I spent so much time chasing it when I finally got it, I realized the chase was the more interesting.
I think the more choice you have the more likely you are to fall in love and you realize that most bar girls and such have their limitations and drama. Unless you are like a pure monger like a pirate and yo ho yo ho 🏴☠️ a mongers life is for you haha. Some people are this way but I’m a romantic and could fall in love with the right girl if she came along.
I can say living in other countries has been a blast for me and I’ve had way more fun in foreign countries than my own. Especially in my own state where the women are too independent and into themselves 🙄🙄🙄
@Vito bravo – yea that’s so true. I fall in love almost every night and bust my nut 💦. And the morning comes (cums) and then I’m single again. 😋 …But I wouldn’t get in a relationship with a bar girl. You’re just askin for trouble. ….Women in the west are total cunts. I couldn’t agree more.