Your Filipina Girlfriend is Cheating
If you’re reading this you’re probably wondering if your Filipina girlfriend is cheating on you. Is she the sweet angel you thought she was?
Now, I really think that Filipina women would make great wives overall. They are very loving and caring women that would be great to live with and do their best to make you happy. Filipinas are also great with kids.
However I am not sure that I could ever trust one to be faithful.
Your Filipina Girlfriend is Cheating – Pro Tips
I know it’s not good to generalize, but I’ve met so many Filipina girls who were cheating on their boyfriends over the years before writing for Nomad Philippines.
Another expat in the Philippines listed 8 foolproof ways to find out if your Filipina girlfriend is cheating on Happier Abroad forum.
Overseas boyfriends mean nothing
Filipina women often have foreigner boyfriends. They dream of this as kids and are so happy when they get them. But then once they get them the day the guy leaves they have no problems with hooking up with other guys.
Don’t get me wrong I doubt their overseas boyfriends are going 6 months or a year without trying to have sex either, but if these girls have finally found their “golden ticket” it is pretty amazing how they will cheat on it so quickly.
I have been in Asia for less than 3 years and there have to be at least 10 times that a girl has received a call from her overseas boyfriend while we are in bed.
It’s usually quite fun as they totally freak out and tell you to be quiet, and then you start teasing them while they are trying to focus on their chat.
I am really amazed at how open Pinays are about the fact that they have boyfriends while they are in the middle of a hook up.
If you’re old, your Filipina girlfriend is cheating on you
Sorry to break it to you older expats but while your hot 20 year old Filipina chick that you are so lucky to have may seem very faithful to you, in reality she isn’t.
20 year old Filipina girls want to be with guys close to their age, not with old men.
They are happy to call you their ‘boyfriend’ and live with you and be good girls when you are around, but when you go to work, or on a trip, or out with your friends they are getting attention from younger guys and they love it.
It’s really not a big deal, she is giving you all the things you want from her still. You are still getting to be with a girl 30 or 40 years younger than you and should be very happy about that.
And odds are if you get the chance to hook up with another 20 year old you will take it, so don’t punish her for doing the same.
They Cheat on Pinoys too
Last year I met a very sexy Filipina girl on AsianDating and sent her my number. We texted for a few weeks, she had a job and was always busy. Eventually I just invited her to stay the night at my home after work because she had no other free time.
She said ok and shows up at my place at 11pm. I had already told her that this was in the middle of my bed time (since I wake up in the middle of the night) and that we would have to go straight to bed when she arrived and she said that’s fine.
We have some fun and then are getting ready to sleep and she pulls up her phone and it has a picture of her and a Pinoy. Apparently she is engaged and lives with him.
She told him that she had to work really early the next morning so wanted to stay at her co-workers home that lived right next to her work. She is saying this just as easily as talking about the weather and doesn’t see anything wrong with it at all.
Many girls here have never tried a foreigner and just want to try it out. Even if they already are committed to a guy they don’t see a problem with it and are happy to have fun.
A lot of times they feel bad afterwards, but before and during it’s no big deal.
This is what makes it hard to consider marrying a Pinay. Again it is not right to lump them all together and there are definitely many that can remain faithful, but I still would bet that there is more cheating in the Philippines (and Asia in general) than in the western world.
If you bring a Filipina woman back to the western world with you will she remain faithful? Or will she be like a kid in a candy store with so many western men around? Is she amongst the ‘most recently online‘ on page 1 of Pinalove?
Think your Filipina girlfriend is cheating? Let me know in the comments.