When Asian Girls Say ‘No’ to Sex
I know that all girls like to show a little resistance before they give it up but Asians really take this to another level. They will do anything to trick themselves into thinking they aren’t sluts.
Take a dating site like PinaLove. Like 90% of the girls there say they are looking for a ‘serious relationship‘, ‘aren’t there for fun‘, want a ‘god fearing man‘ etc.
Some even go on long rants about how they aren’t there for sex and if you are a ‘playboy’ not to message them because they are looking for their future husband only.
When I was a dating site noob I didn’t even message girls if they said things like that in their profile. Now I don’t even look at profiles.
90% of girls say they don’t want to ‘play’ but 90% of girls put out on the first date. Go figure.
‘We Aren’t Going To Have Sex’
If a girl says that to you on a dating site or through text before you hang out then you are going to have sex. If the thought of sex has even crossed her mind before you meet then you are fucking no doubt.
That is my favorite thing for a girl to say to me before I meet her actually. It is a 100% return rate. I have never had a girl message or text me that and then not put out.
I truly believe you have no reason to ever bring up sex with a girl here before you hang out with her. It can only hurt your chances and can’t help them.
I also believe that the girls that want to ‘sext’ with you before you meet them are more likely to dick you around and waste your time then any other girl.
That’s been my experience, although there are exceptions.
But if a girl tells you that she won’t have sex with you….. she will. Go figure.
‘No! Stop! Don’t!’
This is where it gets tricky. Probably 75% of the girls that you end up fucking will stop your first attempt for a kiss. They don’t want to think of themselves as sluts and sluts say no.
Some will stop a second attempt, but usually its less aggressively. Some will even stop a third or a fourth. In the end they almost all put out.
So how do you know when to stop? The last 9 girls you have had over all stopped your first few advances but ended up riding you eventually. Is this girl the same? Or is she in the 10% that really means no?
I just sort of follow a simple rule: I will go in for kiss after kiss after kiss but won’t ever progress past attempting that until the girl kisses me back. I’ll always go in nice and slow so that she has plenty of time to get out of the way.
I also take it really slow whenever progressing the activities. This is for a few reasons. A) So I know she really wants to do it and B) she will get more turned on that way, girls love foreplay.
The more the anticipation builds the more turned on she’ll be and the better time you’re likely to have. And less likely that she’ll cry rape when she had 20 mins to stop you yet didn’t.
A lot of girls may push your hands away when you go for the boobs or between the legs. Just wait a bit, kiss them on the neck some more, and try again in a few minutes.
Also find the girls ‘hot spots’ and work hard on that. The neck is a common one but there are others. There was one girl who stopped me over and over.
Then I ran my hands through her hair and gently pulled on it and it was game over. There was another who would stop my hands from going between her legs if I was kissing her or kissing her neck. But if I was sucking on her boobs she was up for anything.
Know When To Stop
Some girls actually mean no and that is really tough to judge. Luckily if you progress slowly you shouldn’t be doing anything that crosses any lines.
However there was one girl who I still feel bad about even though I really didn’t do anything wrong. I met her on FilipinoCupid and she lived very close to me.
I invited her over to my place and she said OK. She was 19, had rich parents, and was very cute. She spoke good English and we got along quite well.
She had never met a guy from a dating site before so I was kinda surprised that she came directly to my place.
The apartment off AirBnB I was staying in only had aircon in the bedroom and it was the summer so I asked if she wanted to watch the movie in there and she said sure.
We went in and cuddled next to each other and watched a movie. 20 minutes in I go in for a kiss and she doesn’t move a muscle. About 5 seconds into the kiss she starts pushing me off.
I stop and she is breathing SUPER hard. Like out of control breathing. Apparently she suffers from panic attacks and was having one then. I contemplated going in for a second kiss but realized this was not the time (hehe) and we moved back to the couch.
It took her like 5-10 minutes to fully calm back down. She was quite messed up over the whole thing even though it was just a simple kiss.
She said she never even thought I was going to try that and it shocked her. That she was a virgin and had never been with a boy before.
I gave her a nice lecture about how she needed to be more careful and not show up at strange mens homes and hop right into their beds if a kiss was going to do that to her.
Sometimes I don’t know what these girls are thinking. She is a virgin and is showing up at my place an hour after I message her online.
Then she says yes we can go into my bedroom. Then she cuddles against me. Then she is shocked that I try to kiss her lol.
Sure You Aren’t a Slut Sweety
One of my top hook ups of my life had a funny ‘no’ to it and I always like to talk about that night so here I go again!
I met this CJ Miles looking girl at the mall and we were back at her hotel in an hour. She had a European husband but came back to the Phils alone for a vacation.
Her sister worked nights and she had nothing to do and when I gave her my number she insta-texted me and we chatted for 20 minutes and off we went.
When we get into the room she changes from nice ‘hi-so’ clothes to a half t-shirt and tiny tiny shorts that had her ass hanging out. I told her I had been walking all day and wanted to shower and after that I joined her in her bed.
She was being hard core flirty the whole time, and started tracing her finger up from the top of her tiny shorts to her belly button as we chatted.
I went in for a kiss and she moved her head to the side a bit. I paused and went back in 3 seconds later and we banged all night.
In between rounds 1 and 2 she asked if I noticed how she hesitated and moved away. Since she did that she wasn’t a slut at all :).