How to Talk to Filipinas
At first I was going to title this post ‘the differences between western women and Filipinas‘ and then I realized I don’t know really anything about white women. So I might as well leave them out of it.
However, before I moved to Asia I had met a few Filipina women through friends or in the workplace and suspected I might have a better experience with them then I had with western women. It was just a hunch, but it has definitely proved to be true.
The main reason being because you don’t need ‘game’ with Filipina girls, or girls in any Asian country I have been to. Whatever ‘moves’, ‘game’ or PUA tricks you have used to get girls in the western world aren’t needed here.
Basically living in the Philippines all you have to do is not be an asshole and things should work out for you.
Keep the Mood Light
Without a doubt this is the most important thing to remember when dealing with a Pinay. You don’t need to have deep conversations and open up to her.
Asians rarely talk about deep topics, certainly not with people they barely know.
All you have to do with a sexy Filipina is SMILE, tell silly jokes, ask a few questions about her, and tease her a bit but not in a mean way, be playful.
A good way to see how to act with Pinays is to observe how they are when they talk to each other.
Even if they are speaking another language and you can’t understand them just observe how they do it.
You can see that they are always joking, they are slapping each others legs and leaning into each other when they laugh.
If you can master this you will make any girl you meet here feel comfortable with you extremely fast.
And in Asia all you need to do is make the girl comfortable with you. You already have so many advantages (or perceived advantages in her eyes even if they aren’t true) that once you are in her comfort zone she will warm up to you very quick.
Kill them with Kindness & Corny Jokes
Another way to get girls in the Philippines comfortable with you is to text them often. Again you don’t need to have deep long text conversations with them.
Just a “Hi friend how are you!? Hope you are having the great weekend!!” is enough to keep you on her mind.
If she has load she’ll reply and then you just crack some silly joke that you would tell to a 4 year old in the western world and she will reply with lol 🙂 and that’s about it.
You may also notice that they like to ask you ‘have you had your dinner yet?’
This is really confusing when you first get here because you are wondering why do they care?
In reality they don’t care it’s just a common conversation starter in Asia (same in Thailand).
Some Filipinas will be shocked if a foreigner asks that and think its such a kind thing to ask so you can throw it in from time to time as well.
This Probably All Sounds Really Dumb
I realize that you are probably wondering what the hell am I talking about right now if you’re not living in the Philippines yet.
And it does sound really dumb but that is kind of the point.
As mentioned you are playing with a stacked deck when you are over here and dealing with sexy Filipina’s. You don’t need to try and do anything special.