The Walk Of Shame in Asia
The walk of shame refers to walking back to your hotel or apartment past the same people you see everyday once again bringing a different girl back.
Maybe the sun is just coming up and people are going to work, and there’s you looking ragged after a heavy night with another sexy Pinay on your arm. Some guys will seek out special hotels that have back doors so they can avoid this.
For me it’s not a big deal, I have no shame. I feel it a little, and of course try to get through it as quick as possible. But I am sure the girl feels it far more than I do.
It was a bit worse in Cambodia because I was friends with the staff at the hotel. I still didn’t care though. By the time I’ve stayed anywhere a while it becomes quite obvious….
I try to get out of the walk of shame part II when the girl leaves, and I think my logic makes sense.
I explain to the girl that if we walk out together again and I show her to the taxi then everyone who sees us will know what just happened. However if she walks out alone no one will know what just went down.
Some girls agree, most aren’t very happy about it though 😀 If a girl gets upset then I will cave in and go with her, but I can usually get out of it. I really do think it’s better that way.
I wish I could have Filmed This
I had one amazing walk of shame moment, and it actually came with a girl I didn’t even hook up with.
A girl from Filipino Cupid was on her way over to my place but she got in a motorcycle accident. It wasn’t that bad but she did hurt her foot and had to get it bandaged up.
I would have totally understood if she canceled, but instead she just came over 2 hours late. At this point I had been staying at my current place for 3.5 months and had at least 60 Filipina women come visit me.
This was right in the middle of me going balls to the wall on finding dating site girls that wanted to experiment with a foreigner. So this girl comes over and is unable to put any weight on her foot. She has 1 sandal on the other foot, and puts an arm around me and we start walking to my room.
The place I was staying at had a big open area in the middle. Every room could see the door of every other room. The front office could see my room and the walk to it. Security could. The maids and staff were all sitting out in front of the office because it was around 5pm and their shift had ended.
And here I come bringing in like the 61st girl. She is hopping along on one foot and her sandal is making hella noise on every hop. All eyes are on us. I am doing my best not to crack up, and she doesn’t even have a clue what is going through my mind at the time.
As mentioned in the end I never even hooked up with her. It was really awkward with her having her foot propped up on a table. She’s probably the smartest person I’ve met in Asia and we had a nice long chat.
And then we did the whole hop with her arm around my shoulder thing an hour or two later and all eyes were back on us.
The walk of shame is really not anything you need to worry about. You won’t be the first foreigner to bring a sexy Pinay to his room, and you certainly won’t be the last either. It’s all in your head.
Think of it as the ‘stride of pride’.