‘Can I Bring My Friend?’
Filipina women hate to go anywhere alone. They always want to bring a friend with them and this will often include when they hang out with you. To me this absolutely ruins the idea of hanging out with them.
Not only does it make it much harder for you to achieve your goal on that night, it will be awkward and boring and you may never see the girl again.
I understand why a girl I barely know would want to bring a friend, but I still always say no. I try to tell them that we can meet at a public place first and chat there and then she can judge whether I am kind or not before we go to my place. This works with probably 80% of them, but there are some that never give in.
Unless the girl is an 8 or better I don’t give in either and we never end up meeting. I used to meet Filipina chicks with friends often and it was almost always the same. The chick I was trying to meet would be extremely shy, even more shy then if we had met alone. However the friend is not shy at all so you just end up talking to the friend the entire time.
It is not always like that, but for the most part that is what you should expect. So you make no progress with the one you are trying to meet, it’s a very boring night, AND you have to pay for a third wheel. Overall its just not a situation worth putting yourself in. I should add that it is of utmost importance that you ask any Filipina girl you are about to date if she is bringing a friend. They will often bring one without warning.
Success Story 1
There have been a couple of occasions where I met with two chicks even though I thought I was only meeting with one and things turned out alright.
The first time I had met this girl on FilipinoCupid and she wanted to come over after work.
I set my alarm and wake up a couple hours early to a text saying ‘we are here.’ Uwotm8? I forgot to say come alone, and now I’m pissed because I just woke up early for a situation I hate. They come in and I actually like the friend a lot more than the chick I had been texting. They’re both about equal looking but the friend has a much better personality.
Anyways eventually the friend says she is tired and wants to go sleep on the couch and leaves us alone in the bedroom. I am liking how things have progressed at this point and it ended up nicely. Then in the morning we got in another round while the friend took a shower. I also got the friends number and she visited me on multiple occasions as well. A rare win.
Success Story 2
The other success story came when another girl brought a surprise guest to my apartment also. This time the girl I was meeting spoke almost no English and her friend didn’t speak much more. I was having to carry the full conversation and it got really boring real fast.
Even though the one I was meeting was really quiet she was smiling and laughing and I thought maybe I could get her to convince her friend to leave. My first attempt failed, but 5 minutes later I tried again. She said ok and I gave the friend money for her jeepney home.
These are two success stories of about 10-15 times of meeting up with Filipina girls in pairs. The odds are stacked against you and it is something you should try to avoid if you want to have any success on that night. If the girl is hot enough then it is obviously worth trying, but if not there are easier fish in the sea.