Open Letter to Pinays and Other Asian Girls
I am writing this to any Asian girls that may happen to come across the site. I really love Filipinas and think you are the funnest girls in the world. I am not just talking about for sex, overall you are just fun to be with.
But why can’t you just say no? If you don’t want to hang out with a guy then tell him no. It is OK we are big boys and can take the rejection.
We didn’t grow up in your culture of it being better to lie than to tell someone something they don’t want to hear. Believe me we would much rather you reject us then than have you do your standard lie to us and string us along.
I think most Filipinas that lie like that aren’t doing it maliciously, you are just trying to be nice. But it isn’t being nice, it is causing far more harm than good.
So if a foreigner asks you to hang out and you don’t want to don’t say ‘next time’ or ‘yes’ when you know you aren’t going to. Just tell him no, or if you need to avoid that awful no word say you are busy.
Along the same lines if a foreigner asks you what you want for dinner then tell him what you want for dinner. Don’t say ‘up to you’ or ‘I don’t know.’ Say ‘Jollibee’ or ‘pork adobo’ or whatever you want to eat.
We are asking because we want to get you what you like, and because we have no clue what you want. We come from a different culture then you and we like to have direct honest answers.
Do your best to give us those when we ask things.
A Couple Filipina Appearance Issues
We hate those contact lenses that you love so much. You just look weird in them and sometimes it makes you look like a ladyboy.
You are free to wear anything you want and I am about the last person that should be giving fashion advice.
But those contacts are awful and they make you look so much less attractive. I may not be speaking for every guy out there, but I have talked to enough others to know that you aren’t doing yourself any favors.
I remember meeting this one girl off FilipinoCupid for a date in Cebu. The first thing I noticed was her eyes and I was worried she might be a ladyboy. I don’t know why the crazy contacts cause a pretty face to have a ladyboy look but it does.
We went to my place after dinner and she took them out and she went from a 5 to a 7 just like that. Eyes are an important part to looking sexy, don’t weird them up.
Lastly, wash your nipples before a date. One of my pet peeves is when I go down and start licking a girls titties and there is some caked up lint balls stuck to her nipples.
It is like the nasty gunk that guys get in their belly button, but now I am licking on it.
When you take your baths please get your nipples clean. Thanks.