Meeting Filipina Girls with Jobs
Many people on various message boards always try to claim that the only girls you can get for ‘free’ hook ups in the Philippines are the poor uneducated Filipina women. They think the ones with no jobs are desperate to get you to love them.
There may be some cases of this, lots of the Pinays on dating sites don’t have jobs and didn’t go to school. They are looking for men to support them long term – in a poor country it’s not surprising to find that.
But there are many educated Pinays on these sites too, and there is a certain demographic of Filipina women that seem to make up a huge percent of my free hook ups.
Call Center Workers
I don’t know what it is about call center workers but I would guess at least half the girls I have met at malls or face to face and ended up hooking up with worked in them.
In the western world call centers are thought of as pretty terrible jobs. In the Philippines they are one of the best jobs Filipina women can get and they are highly desired by all.
I can come up with a few reasons for why they seem to be the highest demographic for hook ups. First they have enough money to buy load and can text me when I give them my number.
Second they speak good English so won’t be to shy to meet with a foreigner. They may also have an added curiosity after chatting with people from the states all day.
But I really think the biggest reason is that these girls have more ‘balls’ than the majority of the poor uneducated ones. Maybe confidence is a better word.
They are go getters, they have put in the work to get a good job and if an opportunity presents itself they will be willing to take it.
It’s Kind of the Opposite of what You Would Expect
Let’s say I am in Manila and am walking around Greenbelt handing out my number. Or IT Park in Cebu. I will get a pretty high rate of return as far as texts go, and a few will be willing to meet up with me.
But if I go to a poorer area of the city like Ermita/Malate I will get far fewer text backs. But even more then that the ones that text rarely ever meet up.
They are the ‘next time’ crowd. They have some interest, but they are to timid to ever go through with it.
Instead they just want to have pointless ‘hi how are you’ a few times a week.
Then you ask them to hang out and they are ‘busy.’
They have no jobs, they aren’t going to school, they sit around all day on Facebook… yet they always are ‘so busy.’
Eventually weeks or sometimes months later they may meet up with me, but that is pretty rare. I almost feel like it’s pointless to even try there anymore.
On the other hand the ones with jobs will meet up quite quickly.
The most recent one I met on FilipinoCupid came over and was talking about how she had met foreigners before and hadn’t gone back to their place because she knew what their ‘plan’ was.
We were on my couch and I asked why she had decided to come to my place and not theirs and she giggled and said she didn’t know.
That was quite an easy invitation to heat things up so that’s what I did.
Do I believe that she had really turned down the other offers? Who cares hehe :).
Even Knowing This I Still Sometimes Don’t Do the Right Thing
One of the best nights of my life happened a few months ago. I was walking past a sexy girl who had very nice clothes on and she looked quite ‘hi-so.’ I was thinking I had no chance and walked past.
Then I decided why not try so I ran up to her and gave her my number. 2 hours later we were in the hotel room her foreigner husband was paying for.
She was a college grad that had rich parents……. she even had a violin in her room that she traveled with. And I almost didn’t even give her my number because she was to ‘high class’ for a dork like me walking around in a $3 t-shirt.
Sometimes the thing that most people think actually isn’t correct. It is easy to assume that you will only get the uneducated girls and the ‘good girls’ that go to college won’t put out so easily.
In my experience the opposite has been the case.