Filipina Dating Site Tips

Filipina dating sites are pretty fun.  Asian girls don’t feel the same stigma about them as western chicks do. To girls here their Pinalove profiles are just another Facebook to upload their pics to. Gotta share their selfies with the world somehow.

Filipina dating site tips

Whether you’re looking for your future wife, a long term GF, short term GF, or just a friend there is no better way to get in contact with Filipina women.  I’ve been using online dating here over the past few years and will share some tips I use.

Some of these tips I was told by other people and they work very well.  Others I have learned myself through experience.  They will help make sure that your time on the sites is used more efficiently.  I have read how some other guys do things on different blogs and message boards and just shake my head.

Send out LOTS of MessagesFilipina dating site ladyboys

The most important thing to remember when starting out on a Filipina dating site is that it’s all a numbers game.

The more messages you send out the more replies you will get.  The more replies you get the more chance to get some sort of a connection. The fastest way to do this is to copy and paste your opening message so that you don’t spend a lot of time.

Not all dating sites will allow you to do this (DateInAsia even banned me lol) but you can work around it by putting something like ‘hey how are you?’ in front of your copied message.

What some guys fail to realize is that many of the girls on these sites are not all that serious with meeting anyone.  They are just using it to kill time and as a form of entertainment.  Your time is best spent having short and sweet conversations with them trying to meet up ASAP. Filipino guys get frustrated with some of these chicks too.

There are certain girls that might not be willing to give you their number right away, and it’s up to you how much time you want to commit to them.  I may play their games for awhile, but I am not looking to develop some online relationship for months.

Just send her a simple opening message that compliments her and ask if she wants to chat.  If she replies ask some more simple questions, remember Filipina women rarely want to have deep conversations anyways.  Since I don’t want to have one either that makes this a very easy and convenient strategy to use.

The more you talk the more chance you have of saying something that might turn her off.  This is not as big of a deal in Phils because the chicks are a little kinder than their western counterparts.  Still, the more things you say the more chance she finds a reason not to like you.

Never Send Money

Common sense but a few girls on each Filipina dating site ask for money so it’s worth mentioning.  Some girls make a game of leading foreigners on and then telling them about their ‘big problem’ in hopes that some sucker will send them ‘help.’

Some Pinays can be very good at this so you need to really make sure that you know any girl before you ever send money to them.

Sometimes they really do have a “big problem” but more often then not they are just trying to get an easy pay day.  If a girl is asking for money you may want to report her.

Filipina dating site #problems


Ask for their Facebook or Skype

Even on the sites that have lots of pictures you can get fooled into meeting a girl who is not as attractive as you thought.  Even worse you can meet a ladyboy, or get catfished by someone who is just trying to waste your time.  If you get a Filipina girl’s Facebook you can learn a little something about her and see many pictures.  The more info you have before a meet the better.

If she won’t give you her Facebook then try to get her Skype and set up a quick chat.  If she is serious in wanting to meet you she can go to an internet cafe if she doesn’t have internet at home.  If a girl refuses to give her Facebook or Skype then you really need to tread lightly and it is probably best to move on.

No Need to Lie

With so many fish in the sea there really is no reason to lie or lead any women on here.  Just be honest with the girl and tell her what you are looking for and you will find some that will be happy to accommodate.  Of course you need to say things like a gentleman and don’t say anything that may offend them.

I have found it is best to not to directly bring up sex with Filipina women.  If all you are after is just a casual hook up instead of saying that say something like ‘I am only looking for a friend not a serious relationship, is that OK with you?’  You will be surprised at how many will say yes. Or saying you’re just looking for fun. They’ll get the message. Using words like ‘sexy’ is fine too, just don’t get too explicit.

It’s also a good idea to ask them if they are looking for money before you meet them.  There are quite a few ‘working girls’ on Filipina dating sites and if that isn’t what you are looking for it is better to find out sooner rather then later.  Again just ask in a polite and respectful way.

Summing it Up

Overall Filipina dating sites are pretty fun and lead to great results no matter what you are looking for.  The key things are that you need to have many short chats, don’t focus to much time on one Filipina girl who may just be playing games, and to be honest about your intentions.  This will help you find many like minded girls that you can meet up with.

I’ve been having some good success with paid Filipina Dating Sites like FilipinoCupid and AsianDating as girls can only read messages from guys with a full membership (still cheap). Keeps their inbox from overflowing.

24 Responses

  1. I88888I says:

    so dick pics on day 1 is a no no?

  2. kick2dante says:

    butt pics > dick picks

  3. No need to lie is the one thing that many need to follow for much safer online dating experience surely.

  4. anonymous user says:

    Apart from FC, pina, and tinder, what other websites (preferably newer) can you guys recommend?

  5. anonymous user says:

    I wasn’t expecting such a fast reply Jspill, lol.

    Whoops, I meant to write what other FREE websites.

    • jspill says:

      dateinasia, tagged

      facebook and instagram, searching by city and sending a message request, many will accept

      apps – happn, wechat, badoo, skout, beetalk, tango

      • NormalNomad says:

        My 2 cents:

        WeChat is full of Ladyboys.

        Happn is a waste of time.

        The others I either haven’t tried or have had decent success with.

        • NormalNomad says:

          Beetalk is useless in PH as well. Probably works well in Thailand, guessing that’s why Jspill recommends it.

          Gonna try Tango next.

          • jspill says:

            It’s still not great but yeah works better in Thailand

            Day 2 in Cebu, banged an 18yo off DIA today

            • Mikey Johnson says:

              DIA is surprisingly good in Cebu. Better than FC even ime.

              • NormalNomad says:

                Same experience here. Not sure what it is about FC but every girl I’ve met from there is a nutjob. Several I’ve talked to and gotten numbers from but they end up flaking with the lamest excuses known to man like “I forgot it was my grandmas birthday today and I have to get her a present.” one hour before the date lol.

                Of course you deal with flakes and crazies anywhere but moreso on FC than other sites IME [thanks Mikey]

  6. anonymous user says:

    Mikey, what’s ime?

  7. anonymous user says:

    How’s Tango so far, Normal?

    • NormalNomad says:

      Tango appears to be a chat app the likes of Line or Whatsapp, I haven’t discovered a way to search for nearby people, so I can’t recommend it at all unfortunately.

  8. anonymous user says:

    I agree with you Normal.

  9. NormalNomad says:


    This link which is from your “Pinoys get tired of these girls too” text is no longer active. FYI

    • jspill says:

      Thx I found a copy

      I’ll post it here:

      Tinder in the Philippines may not be the same Tinder, you’re hoping for if you’ve ever used it in the US. Sure, it’s the same shallow swiping the good-looking faces to the right and swiping the not so pleasant ones to the left. While it’s supposed to help you “Discover those around you,” Tinder actually just lets you judge a person solely on looks, and occasionally through a witty bio­, that’s if you actually get that far.

      Here’s a compendium of Filipina Girls You Meet on Tinder:


      Girls, whose sole purpose in life is to bang and bag a white guy. No Filipinos allowed, oh wait, you’re Fil-Am, you may enter!

      Get Rich Quick

      They’ll lure you with some casual flirting, meet you at a local Starbucks, next thing you know she’s discussing a great business opportunity with you and 3 other random strangers who think this is the best idea since sliced bread.

      The Christians

      Much like the Get Rich Quick girls, but with an extremely different ulterior motive. They meet you, and ask you to come in a service, which actually means a religious service. If you think, it’s done there, it isn’t. Then there’s a small group thing where you discuss what the pastor said and sang and danced about. Not over yet, there’s still the one-on-one processing of what you learned from the small group, that you learned from the service.

      College Girls

      If you think there’s nothing wrong with dating a college girl in the Philippines and you’re no longer near the college age, then there’s something wrong with you my friend. Most Filipino college girls are under 18! If you think it’s cool to flirt and laugh with these youngsters, I say you need to get checked up.

      Slut Alert

      Some girls are just really slutty, it’s all right, but be careful. There’s always a catch, she’s hot, she’s showy, but she’s just a tease. She’s hot, she’s horny, but she has a cock. She’s hot, she’s aggressive, she’s not looking for a one night stand—she’s crazy. Proceed with caution.

      The Psychologist

      That girl who plans to decipher you like a rubix cube. In the end, you tell her everything just because that’s what she wants to hear. Nonetheless, she won’t bang you.

      Shadow People

      The kind of people no one actually bothers to pay attention to. Okay she’s there but her presence doesn’t ring any substance. You swiped. She swiped. You’re in. But really do you ever message beyond “Hey!” and “Sup?”.

      Where’s Waldo’s sister

      All her photos are in a group. This is how mistaken identity happens because you let them happen!

      Social rapellers

      Starbucks, check. Iphone, check. Ateneo/DLSU jacket (even though she doesn’t go there), check. One of the many reasons why a lot people in this country live in poverty is because of overspending. Once you hook up with this girl, she vcuums in on your wallet and drain it with her lifestyle.

      Boracay Spokesgirl

      Nothing wrong with this, don’t get it confused with social rapellers, Boracay is love. Just like the many fishes in the sea, you’’ see many Bora pictures in Tinder, too!

      Make up Transformaster

      Maybe there are a few chicks in the picture. Maybe she knows how to work the right angles. You know what I mean, the hefty chick upper left angle, face only shot. You were too lazy to do your homework and now you’re paying the price. How on earth did she manage to look like that in the first picture? She’s a pro.

      Single Mommy

      This is not saying that having children is bad. We’re all happy for her and she absolutely rocks, but that’s not what we are looking for. I can just about manage to look after myself; I can’t imagine dealing with a child.

      Obvious Hooker

      Solo shot in the skimpiest lingerie available. Clear watermarking over the picture. “Visit to see more” She’s sent you a message! Maybe she want’s the D. “Hey I saw ur pix and think u r hot. Make sure 2 check out my webcam show”. You’ll bag the next one slugger.

      The newly broken up

      Some call it rebounding, this woman calls it an opportunity. Note to ladies, if it’s been more than three months, it doesn’t count as a rebound, it’s called pity drag.

      That sad, lonely girl in the corner you actually know

      Hey! We went to high school together! Or something like that. It doesn’t matter, you know her. Oh god you matched, you’ll message her something funny and she’ll say she just haaaad to swipe you it’s hilarious you’re both on this goofy app. Little do you know she’s mass messaging every dude on her just begging for it

      Cheating wife

      Personally found it weird that 8 of my oh so many matches in the Philippines are married women who actually brags about them being married and will be cheating their husbands for you. Seriously, is this a thing? If it is. Hell, nope!


      As some of Pinoy Redditor said, Tinder is also filled with trans, shemale, and post-op trans, some even hotter than the real girls. This is a pretty big deal, not that we don’t like the hot lady guys but we went to Tinder looking for some girls. It’s like eating at Bodhi, you get fooled you’re eating meat when in reality it’s actually soy.

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