Dating in Vietnam | Are Vietnamese Girls Easy?
This is part 2 of my dating in Vietnam series, if you read the first part so far I had messaged 5 dating site girls and didn’t get laid yet.
The next day I lined up a date with girl #6. She was dressed quite sexy in her pics compared to other girls so I thought I stood a better chance with this one.
She suggested dinner at Sushi Hokkaido in District 1 and asked to bring her friend.
6th time lucky on VietnamCupid?
I’d worked out by now it’s rare to get laid on the first date with a Viet girl compared to a Thai or Pinay, so I figure it doesn’t matter if she brings a friend. I don’t have to worry about getting cockblocked if she’s not coming back to mine anyway.
Every Viet girl so far has been quite guarded and I didn’t want to risk scaring off this one like the others. So I said ok sure and just got a handjob at the massage spa of Vien Dong Hotel where I was staying.
She picked me up on her motorbike like the last girl, I didn’t risk a creeper pic this time though until at the restaurant.
They paid their share of the bill which was a nice change from dating girls in Thailand and the Philippines.
With the last girl I killed the vibe by inviting her to my place for the second date so I didn’t want to make that mistake again. But I figured I have to put the idea in her head so I just said I’d sleep well if she was with me.
She went on a rant about wanting a serious relationship and I thought I’d ruined it again. But I only had 3 days left to bang a dating site girl so I had to try.
The next morning she was quite responsive saying ‘wake upppp’ and joking about kicking me out of bed, or cooking me breakfast. So I thought great it’s back on. Lots of selfies, emojis, ‘haha’ and so on.
So when she asked me what I’m doing I said I’m about to take a bath and sent a cheeky topless selfie with a towel on. Big mistake.
She told me not to send her pics like that and changed the subject to going to some boring looking flea market. I pointed out that some of her VietnamCupid pics were half nude, and so was her Facebook pic.
Lol flea market
She forgot she added me on Facebook at sushi the night before. I’d noticed it said ‘in an open relationship’ so called her out on it.
I wouldn’t normally lose my cool like this but she’d been lecturing me about one night stands etc. and making herself out to be a good girl virgin, yet her FB says that.
I didn’t care and wouldn’t have said anything if she’d just let me bang her but she’s expecting me to be the perfect gentlemen while she’s probably banging some guy.
‘Say no with one night stand’
This actually seemed to work because the next morning she said sorry and that now I was ‘looking good’.
BangkokBaller23 commented on the last post that Viet girls want a ‘movie’ / soap opera experience so maybe in her mind this was the big dramatic fight before we bang.
I didn’t want her to think I was going to fall in love though so I said how in my culture guys want to have sex first then decide if they’re compatible with the girl. She replied how American girls are sluts and hoes 😀
I used lots of ‘if’ so that I didn’t lead her on. I wasn’t lying when I said I didn’t want a one night stand… I wanted to bang her a bunch of times.
She wasn’t that hot but had a big curvy ass. If she was good in bed I’d definitely come back to Vietnam and see her again.
Then she suddenly wanted to meet and was on her way to my hotel. I quickly cleaned my room in case this turned into an afternoon sex session.
But she just used my hotel wifi to message me that she was downstairs by the park.
The second date ended up being me walking around Central park checking out her ass as she cycled next to me. Then we got some banh mi bread and sat and ate it on some plastic chairs on the street.
I gently tried to suggest going into my hotel for coffee but she said she had to run some errands but she’d be back to take me to the museum later.
Central park opposite Vien Dong hotel
So off we went to Ho Chi Minh City museum in District 1.
Pretty boring date for a sexpat but at least now I had some pics of me doing normal stuff to show family back home. She went home and said she’d meet me tomorrow.
So about two and a half dates so far and no sex. I checked into Dai Nam Hotel the next day to try out the handjobs there. Like Vien Dong it’s a girl friendly hotel with its own massage spa.
13th Century wooden longboat & ceramic pots
Also got a Wechat hooker over, one of the worst P4P experiences I’ve ever had. I’ll write separate posts about those.
So it got to the point where my flight was the next day, and I regretted investing so much time in this girl. Annoying random replies and it seemed like she wanted me to tell her I loved her, like a romance movie.
I’d been reading on some monger forums that this is basically what Viet dudes do with girls, promise them the world, undying love, say they’ll take care of them etc. I didn’t want to do that.
I reiterated how most western guys will need to bang before deciding on a relationship, let alone falling in love, and mentioned the third date rule.
I was pretty bored at this point and had a different girl lined up. She said ‘if you mention sex again maybe we shouldn’t meet tonight’ so I ended it.
I gave her some advice thinking hopefully she doesn’t do this to the next foreigner who comes along.
I planned to check out Boss Palace Hotel where you can get a VIP room for not much more than a standard room at Vien Dong or Dai Nam, and they do blowjobs after the massage, not just handjobs.
Hot massage girls >>> dating in Vietnam. I stopped messaging the drama queen.
Then suddenly she messages me that she could come over to my place ‘just for a while’.
‘Depends on you’
When Asian girls agree to go to your room it pretty much means a sexual act is going to go down.
But she played all the usual games, saying no, not letting me unzip her jeans, then letting me but pulling her knickers back up, then letting me but putting her hand over her pussy, then telling me ok turn the lights off.
When I finally got a hand between her legs she was dripping wet. I still had a Viagra in my system from banging the Wechat hooker so I was rock hard and she was shocked how big it was saying she wasn’t sure we’d be able to do it.
The next day
I went down on her to loosen her up then flipped her over and rimmed her juicy ass as well. She seemed shocked, don’t think any guys have done that to her before.
Then I slipped it in in rawdog, no complaints, and she moaned as I let out all my frustration on her in doggy style. She whispered that it was nearly her period so I could finish inside her 🙂
Then as I was cumming she looked deep into my eyes and asked ‘do you love me’ lol jesus. I just went to shower then banged her again and passed out.
She leaves early for work the next morning and when I wake up I see this by my bed…
Stage 9 clinger
She’d bought me an iPhone case as a gift so that she can be ‘with my phone’ and always ‘behind me’.
Now that I’d got laid I was starting to like Vietnam more. Seems it just takes 3 or 4 dates to get laid here instead of 1 or 2. And I still wanted to check out Boss Palace so I changed my Airasia flight for like $30.
Again she tried not to look like a slut by saying we wouldn’t have sex again, because her period came, but once I got her in the room we banged again. And she got moody when I made it sound like I was going to go out with my friends instead of having her over.
On my last day she gave me a diary as another gift. Then asked me straight to my face ‘why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend?’. Oh man.
I felt bad for her but I explained I don’t live in Vietnam so it couldn’t really work and reminded her what I said about how western guys have sex first then make a decision.
These VietnamCupid girls are pretty ruthless about locking you down. I feel like a Thai girl would just wait and see what I did or ask ‘what are we?’ in a text message. Much more docile and malleable.
When I left Vietnam I didn’t know what to say to her, and after a week of me not saying anything she unfriended me on Facebook.
If any readers have experiences of dating in Vietnam or crazy Viet girls let me know in the comments!
What do Vietnamese girls think of Filipina girls?
Update – a reader sent me this funny chat. He was talking to a Vietnamese girl in Manila he met online. He mentioned he’s currently seeing a Pinay.
Chat with a Viet
She replies with exclamation marks and ‘I don’t like girls here. Sorry I just have this feeling for only girls in this country‘ (Philippines). 😀