Blacklisted from the Philippines by a Pinay?

Hot vs Crazy Matrix needed

Most Filipina girls are fine of course. We have some super cool Pinays that follow this blog.

But I have noticed a vindictive streak in some Filipinas, more so than other Asian girls. More jealousy than average too. Perhaps more in line with fiery Latina girls?

Let’s say you upset a Thai girl in some way, whether you’re in the wrong or not. It’s quite rare in my experience for them to ‘report you to immigration’, make up a false rape allegation, get the police involved in some way, or want you deported.

Usually they’ll just block you and move onto the next guy, if all you did is get caught being a ‘player’ or something like that.

Mates have had their clothes cut up with scissors or laptop thrown out the window in Thailand, but that’s about it. Nothing that’s going to see you jailed or blacklisted from the country for no good reason.

I haven’t heard of a Thai girl threatening ‘I’ll say you raped me’ or anything.

It might just be variance, expats including myself can have a tendency to get confirmation bias, remember all the bad experiences vividly and forget the good ones / make up their mind too quickly.

And there are two sides to every story you read online. But I’ll share a couple stories.

‘I’ll report you all to police and TV local news’

I covered the faces

Yesterday a Filipina girl found the blog and decided to create a Facebook group (update – got it deleted) trying to doxx commenters here because she found them ‘arrogant’.

Now we do have some douchebag commenters for sure 😀 But it’s locker room talk, nothing that requires police attention.

The Facebook group hasn’t got any traction, but go check if she’s posted your pic if you’re a FilipinoCupid member.

I don’t know why she thinks the 9 random guys she posted pics of comment here. Nice six pack if that is a reader here… she probably isn’t getting attention from hot guys like that!

This is pretty rare from my experience in Thailand. Of course Thai girls can’t read English as well, but I definitely find them more docile, laid back etc.

She is referring to the comments on the Lily Maymac post the other day. Apparently it’s a crime to get laid a lot or trash talk.


Blacklisted by a Filipina?

My friend got blacklisted from the Philippines. Super nice guy, only crime was believing a crazy Filipina girl’s stories and not leaving her sooner.

His psycho girlfriend claimed to be pregnant with his baby, eventually he noticed her stomach didn’t really look that way. I hear there are some drugs girls can take to distend their stomach.

He broke the toilet in their condo so he could get a sample of her urine after she took a leak. He then confronted her with the negative pregnancy test result.

She destroyed all his stuff, stole money in the room and tried to get him deported. Disillusioned with Filipina girls, he went home for a break.

On his return he was denied entry and told he was blacklisted from the Philippines. This was his post on some travel forums Dante and I post on.

His Story

OK so I guess I owe it to explain the story [why I’m back home]. And yes, I had gotten numbers and was setting up dates with really hot girls from online…FFS!!! If you followed this thread a couple years back, you’d know I had a girl that got “pregnant”. I knew that this was a somewhat famous way of scamming, and she wasn’t scamming me because I didn’t give her jack **** and made it clear I’m not marrying.

She looked pregnant, lots of people were asking how many months, my nurse friend was convinced, she had no periods, she was growing, taking pills, she had all the distinct symptoms, we were discussing kid names, she wanted me to start buying baby clothes and getting a crib, etc. So yeah, it was compelling – WTF – I still have no clue how she did it and she’s refusing to tell me the truth.

Anyway, this girl was a total mess in general and we were having very loud fights all the time, she was quite violent at times and destroyed my stuff – I couldn’t lay a hand on her because she’s got my kid – I am not being an ******* and leaving a pregnant poor woman with no place to stay behind, no matter how ****ed up the girl is. I can’t live with that…

So yeah, I put up with everything and it completely destroyed me – I’ve had depression for 2 years just staying alone in a room not talking to anyone and only going out for food. Anyway, here’s how I found out. I was getting suspicious as in my opinion her stomach should be a little bit bigger at 8 months even though she’s a tiny girl. She had always refused getting tests, because 1) It’s obvious, I know I’m pregnant and you know it 2) It’s bad luck and something might happen to the baby. Superstition, OK, I’m not drugging her down and forcing her.

A morning I got up at like 4AM. I shut off the water-flow really tight, flushed, emptied the toilet bowl as much as I could and waited for her to wake up and take the morning pee. She did and I discretely went ahead and got a couple good samples. Went to the pharmacy, bought the 2 most expensive tests and went to a public bathroom. Negative.

I went back, showed them to her.  She freaked out obviously. I just said “You know what this means right”. -“Yes…I know”. So that was the break-up right there. From there onwards, all hell broke loose. I don’t wanna go through all of this as it’s very emotional for me and still triggers, but she made my life a living hell. Well, it already kinda was so more like complete inferno or whatever.

Pinays be cray

She stole 50K, destroyed my laptop and tried to destroy my PS3, called the cops on me, tried to get me deported, I got a court order (or invitation to a trial, not sure the correct word), she tried to get my family and friends against me, etc.

She called everyone on my phone list (how the hell had she gotten this?). I decided to leave in Nov 2011 because I was totally messed up and only capable of drinking liquor all day. Needed time for healing.

So I came back. Immigration stopped me, we went in an office and they searched to figure out I was blacklisted. She had filed a complaint sometime in 2012. I have no idea what it says, will be an interesting read if I ever find out. And the commissioner had believed whatever crazy insane story she’s made up and banned me based on it.

WTF can it be? Gotta be pretty damn bad. Yeah, she’s good at making stuff up. To lift this required the authority of the same guy who had banned me, and he’s higher up and in another office. Requires a written letter, probably a week+ to get a reply.

I considered trying a bribe but the office was packed with workers and it really didn’t seem like a great idea. Plus I only had like 7K which might not cut it. There were like old sweaty sex tourists in the office as well getting deported and they didn’t seem to be bribing either. And it’s really not my thing, being a super honest guy it’s way out of my comfort zone.

So yeah, they sent me back through my airline. It was a fun day there though, I got interviewed by some hot journalists from some paper that were just giggling and flirting “Wow you look like a rock star teeehehehehe”. I didn’t really take this hard just laughed about it. A security guard who was in charge of staying with me ripped me off for 20 pesos when he was buying me water, hahahah, ****ing sad loser.

So yeah, I’ll try to contact PI/Norwegian embassies and hear how we can sort this out and lift the ban. It’s a total joke. I am in Bangkok now. I recommend visiting this place, it’s way more laid back.

People are giving you a break and aren’t getting in your face all the time like lots of places in Manila and it’s significantly cleaner in general but a bit more expensive. I’m randomly at a hostel (met a US girl at Delhi airport, we got along) and drinking/traveling with all sorts of people from every continent.

What to Do If Blacklisted from the Philippines

Presumably she made up some false rape allegation in his absence, I’ve had readers of this blog email me to say the same happened to them.

Not sure if this still works as that was in 2014 but he was able to return to the Philippines by changing his name by deed poll and getting a new passport in that name. His follow up post here.

I thought passports are always linked to the previous one, but apparently it works. Worth a try.

This post isn’t to generalize all Filipina girls, but just something to bear in mind. Hell hath no fury like a Filipina scorned!

21 Responses

  1. InCebu says:

    What a bitch. Lol.

  2. thibault says:

    this does nothing but validate wgat we alk thought. the rules are still the sale:
    1 never let let a woman get a hold on your life.
    never let a woman know your full identity.
    2 only do one night stand.
    pay a woman to leave.
    3 allways wrap up.
    never rely on contraception that is managed by a woman. (or anything they pretend managing for that matter)
    4 dont lead women.
    well this one is for political correctness, it may benefit you in the short term but not really her. on the long term ( anythjing more that one night) you up your risks by upping their expectations.

    i ve only creampied a woman once. it ws a low level drug addict whore in bangkok. i probably have a daughter that is raised in isan by the grandmother, ten years from now she ll be in patraya and imay barfine her.unknowingly … feels strange.

    • jspill says:

      I have fake surname on all social media, can’t see face in pic, nothing public anywhere, don’t lead on women, and cum on their tits

      But lol rawdog 4 lyf and repeat the best ones

      • thibault says:

        repeat is ok, just not twice in a row.

      • expat333 says:

        You can delete your surname (fake or real) altogether on FB by following these steps:

        (1) Use a proxy and set it to Indonesia
        (2) Temporarily change your FB language settings to Bahasa Indonesia
        (3) Delete the surname on the account. Keep only your first name.
        (4) Change your language settings back to English
        (5) You’re good to go. You can get reset your proxy settings to whatever you want.

  3. You guys need to be really careful.

    I once saw a Pinay post on FB about how her ex from Oz left her and that she might try and get child support by tracking him down. Do your due diligence.

    Jspill, you’re like family to me. I’m pretty much having my morning coffee while reading your blog, but the female readership is a bit scary. I would actively discourage that.

    • thibault says:

      how are you preventing them from reading? the main problem is rhe lzvel of english of pinoy. with thai/indo it would not mattzr what we say. with viet/khmer its borderline

    • jspill says:

      Thanks Mikey hehe

      Can’t really stop them reading but I wouldn’t worry too much about it.

      I think it’s because I used a hashtag #philippines on an IG pic, so any random searching that would see the pic (of Gramercy swimming pool). Was the same day. Won’t do that again.

  4. thibault says:

    btw if jspill has that sixpack, i take back my comment saying he is fat.

  5. AI says:

    I think an Italian Photographer and an airBnB Host is in trouble. He might be banned in the thePhilippines. check this link
    that post got a lot of comments, share and likes.
    that Guy also posted that the girl is a scammer but he did not deny that he look at the peephole and it makes him more guilty.

  6. InCebu says:

    Statism–together with all of its ramifications–is bad enough as it is. It’s disgusting when people take advantage of it for vengeful purposes–especially if they do it deceptively. Anyone who would report someone to police for anything other than unjustified aggression against person or property deserves a taste of their own medicine. And fate will give it to them.

  7. ShirtlessDude says:

    Jesus christ, I wasn’t expecting this when I was coming to lurk your blog today. I’m the shirtless dude, i’ve been a longtime lurker here and 2+2 travel forum.

    Funny thing is, i’m not even in PH and never have been…I just made a profile on there a month ago just to see what it would be like interacting with filipinas to see what it would be like if I ever decided to visit.

    At least she nailed it with me being on here but her logic absolutely is “gullible”, I didn’t even have to attempt to seduce or message anyone. I got hundreds of messages and close to a thousand interests in the month. Her problem should be with filipinas wanting to fuck foreigners if it absolutely concerns her so much.

    90% of the women on there looking for men 3 times their age is disturbing and makes you wonder who is trying to trick who.

    Back to lurking, but i’ll use to this time to thank you guys for the entertainment. Cheers, and here is to hoping I make the news :D.

    • thibault says:

      braggart. you re not him.
      how the fuck would they lake the link between you just looking a a blog and a dating site profile?
      sixpack aint you.

      • ShirtlessDude says:

        It’s me baby, i’ve got a buzz cut and a black LG droid phone in the pic. A shirtless foreigner linked to a blog related to promiscuity in PH, lucky fucking guess I suppose. I don’t know.

        Nothing to brag about, just thought it would be funny to post after lurking all these years and strangely ending up on it. Relax your mind, buddy.

  8. -Cam says:

    This shit is turning into a tabloid haha. So much drama. I love it!

  9. jack's a girl says:

    Lol. Im not even sure how i stumbled on this site but it did entertain for quite a while. Guess you can’t really stop a Filipino girl from reading. Dont worry, i dont intend on reporting ya’ll. I agree that Pinays are too crazy and i enjoyed the Thailand’s gogo bars last time I was there too. Seems less taboo than here in Ph so it was more fun. Love the blog. -crazy pinay

  10. Mikey Johnson says:

    If a girl threatens to deport you she doesn’t know your full name, is it an empty threat?

  11. Mike L says:

    I convinced an old ‘Nam vet to move to the Philippines. He was naive, in his 60s, and hooked up with the first woman who paid attention to him. She was an older bar girl of course–mid 30s–and he was in his early 60s then.

    Long story short, he moved to her province, where she ‘owned’ property–rice fields, a couple of houses. He paid her some allowance and utilities, even opened her a bodega! Later, he found out she was already married to an Australian who had been out of country for a while. He trashed the store, packed his stuff and took off.

    Later, in Angeles, he met a nicer, more honest woman, about 30ish, who he moved in with. They eventually got married and he is happy as a clam.

    The reason I posted this is, the first crazy threatened to BLACK LIST him! I didn’t think that was possible, but he said it can be done. I think however, since he is married to another Filo woman, it can’t happen. Any thoughts?

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