A Weekend of Flaky Girls
Sometimes I feel like I may write too often about the same or similar subjects. But this blog is about the things I go through living the life I live, and girls being flaky (cancelling on dates, etc.) is one of the main frustrations.
At this point it’s really not that big of a frustration actually. I am totally used to it by now, plus after 3 years in Asia my sex drive has calmed down so going a few days without getting any is no big deal.
It’s still annoying though, and if you are moving over here and want to try and be with normal girls you need to be prepared for the things that you are going to need to deal with.
This weekend I just had was a pretty good example, and if you had just arrived and really wanted to get some then a weekend like this would really piss you off.
My Flaky Filipina Girl Weekend
I met her at a third tier smaller mall in the poorer area of the city maybe 3 months ago. She works there selling cell phone accessories. All of those things are red flags actually. Girls with jobs are hard to meet because they are busy.
Particularly ones that work in the poorer areas because they will work like 28+ days a month. On top of that she really isn’t that good with English.
She texts me like 5 days a week but luckily they are never long discussions. Just a hi and how are you cuz she is bored.
I have been back to the same mall a handful of times and stop by to say hi and she is always to shy to say anything, I think because of her poor English. She always asks me to visit her, but when I do she says nothing.
I have been asking her to hang out all the time and every time she either replies with ‘maybe’ or ‘next time.’ I know that she is just saying no, but she seems very happy to be my friend and is quite cute so I press on.
Last week I decided to up the pressure and try and get her to commit for Friday. She said that her aunt is crazy and won’t let her go out but I told her to say it was her workmates birthday and they would go out for a couple hours after work.
She said OK she would try and would let me know. Come Friday she ignored my texts all day. This was really no surprise….. and is just one of many.
Girl B I met on Tinder earlier in the week, another mistake, why do I even bother with Tinder in the Philippines. She was in the province but said she would be back in the city for the weekend and wanted to hang out.
I told her I didn’t like to go out to discos or bars and she said she didn’t either so I offered to have a relaxing hang out at my place and she said ok.
Then on Saturday she comes and invites me to go to the disco with her. I say no thanks but to text me after because I would be up late and we could hang out then. She says she will.
And she does, but says her friend is really drunk. I ask if she wants to hop in a taxi and bring her friend home and then come here and she never replies.
Another date for Saturday who was out of town but would be back. I met her the week before when I gave her my number at the mall.
We had talked about chilling at my place Saturday night and then when she got to the city and I asked what time we could hang out she said she couldn’t. She was going to the disco with her brother.
Later that night I got bored and went up to the area with all the discos… not to go inside, just to roam around outside and meet girls cuz I don’t understand how to meet girls in a disco.
I text her and ask if she is there and she says yes. I ask which one, or if she would come outside and say hi….. no response.
I had met her on Friday at the mall and she texted me Saturday. She asked what she was wearing when I gave her my number….. doh! I had given 6 numbers out that day so I went with a vague ‘something dark colors’… she was in white.
But she still texted with me after I lied and said I had got really drunk Friday night and that is why I forgot. She was also going to a disco and I said she should text me after if she got bored there.
I text her around 12:30 and ask if she is at the disco and she says she was just leaving and it was an awful night. I say she should stop by and we could hang out so her night wasn’t totally ruined.
She asks what we will do and I say just chat, watch a movie, and try to cheer her up. She says I am such a layer and that she hates me and to delete her number.
Then the next day when I wake up I have a text from her asking what I am doing.
Girl E is a girl I have written about as a ‘gray area girl’ – not sure if she’s a hooker or not. She has been over 4 times now after we met on PinaLove, the first two times she didn’t want money…. or at least didn’t ask.
The last two times she has wanted to ‘borrow’ 500 pesos which I told her she didn’t need to pay back.
She texted me earlier in the week asking if I would want to hang out on Sunday. I think this means she needs a place to stay in the city Sunday night which is fine with me.
The other time she needed a place to stay we banged when she first got here then she laid in bed and played on her phone while I worked. Then later that night I went and joined her in bed again. And in the morning I woke her up with kisses on the neck that led to more……
But this Sunday she hasn’t responded to my texts yet and it is getting late.
I met her at the mall earlier in the week. She is a college student and she said it was her ‘hell week’ but by Sunday she would be finished and we could hang out.
We texted every day, and she seemed very keen on hanging out today. Surprise surprise the day comes and this is the one day all week she doesn’t insta respond to my texts.
Lives just down the street from me, walked past her a week ago when she was just arriving home with a friend and they smiled at me. I turned back to check out the booty and she looked back also.
Quickly turned around and said hello and asked for her number. We texted a lot, pretty sure she is a virgin, definitely hasn’t had a foreigner friend before.
Is shy to go to my place so I say we can meet at the mall near our homes first and then go my place if she is comfortable and she says ok.
When the day arrives she says she is a good girl and can’t go to my place unless I am her boyfriend. I had already explained we were just going to be friends.
Also during the week one time I texted her saying I was about to pass her house and she should come outside to say hi. She did…… and she brought her mom and her sister.
I met her on FilipinoCupid 2 weeks ago. She lives in the province but told me that on this Sunday she would be coming into the city for a week but didn’t really have any plans when here.
We texted often…… and then on Friday she informed me that she had something to do on Monday so now her visit will be pushed back til later in the week. I’m not holding my breath.