Filipina Girlfriend Advice
I’m not the best person to ask for Filipina girlfriend advice as I stick to ‘just friends’ relationships. However if we’re using the term ‘girlfriend’ loosely for that too, this would be my advice.
Dealing with women in Asia is completely different to dealing with women in the western world. I really think you would be best off forgetting everything you know (or think you know) about women before you come here.
Maybe the PUA tricks you use to ‘game’ women in the western world will work here, but they are totally unnecessary. There are much easier ways to deal with the women here.
Keep it Simple is the Best Filipina Girlfriend Advice
Just be nice. That is pretty much all that it breaks down to. Filipina girls just want a nice man that can take care of them and won’t cause them harm. If they trust you to do that they will give you whatever you want.
Being nice is easy. Smile, make some corny jokes, talk about how you’re so happy after moving to the Philippines, whatever. Don’t get upset if she does something wrong. Asians are non-confrontational. They would rather lie than tell someone that they’re wrong.
So even though we may be used to letting people know they made a mistake when you do that to an Asian girl you put them in a spot they aren’t used to. Just brush off small mistakes and pretend they didn’t happen.
If your Filipina girlfriend keeps making a costly mistake that actually is a big deal just try to explain it to her as kind as you can. Let her know that it’s important she does something a different way, but try not to make her feel bad about it.
Do your best to always keep the mood light and her happy and things will turn out great.
Can You Trust Filipinas?
This is another matter. From my experience they seem to cheat on their partners quite often so trusting them would be hard. Of course there are many that are very loyal, there just also happen to be many that cheat.
I think it would take me knowing a girl for a really long time and not catching her cheating before I could really trust her. That is probably unfair, they may not cheat more than the average girl in any country.
It may just be that it’s so much easier to make ‘friends’ that are girls here that I find out about it easier. All I know is that hooking up with girls that have boyfriends or even husbands happens more often than you would expect.
I don’t really blame them for cheating though. I would bet that most expats living in the Philippines would cheat on their girlfriend if they could hook up with a sexy 20 year old. We can’t expect Pinays to be perfect when we are no better.
Giving Filipina girlfriend advice is easy in some ways (being a gentleman is all it takes) and hard in others. Only you know if your partner is worth your trust or not.