Best Asia & Philippines Dating Sites

These are IMO the best Philippines dating sites, full of Filipina singles looking for a foreign husband, boyfriend, or an open relationship / friends with benefits. In less than an hour you can have the numbers of 20+ sexy Filipinas that would all be very happy to hang out with you.

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As well as Philippines dating sites I’ll include some general Asian dating sites where many of the members are Filipinas (Filipino women).

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Best Philippines Dating Sites

#1 – FilipinoCupid.com

Formerly known as ‘Filipina Heart’, this is the largest Filipina dating site. At the time of writing there are ~2000 girls online. I wrote a trip report of getting laid on Filipino Cupid here and Dante wrote one here. It’s one of the most convenient ways to meet girls in the Philippines.

This site is probably the best at weeding out the fake profiles. They encourage you to let them know of any profile that is asking for money or that appears fake in any way.

It also has a lot of Pinays on there who moved abroad – Filipinos are known for working in other countries and sending remittances home. There may be a cute Pinay in your local area who doesn’t use western dating sites like POF but is reachable via Filipino Cupid.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership. Online dating is especially popular in Cebu.

It’s free to create a profile, search and receive messages then costs $35 for one month to read your messages and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at Filipino Cupid and the price drops to $11/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#2 – Pinalove.com

Another popular Philippines dating site, Pinalove (‘Pinay’ means Filipino woman) has at the time of writing ~600 girls online, ~150 in Manila. Read our longer Pinalove review. You can filter for men, women, and ladyboys, and choose which ones can see your profile or not.

Formerly known as Pure Filipina, you can search the site by location, age, weight, education, and no. of children. To search for girls in Angeles City select ‘Pampanga’. There are less girls actively using Pinalove compared to Filipino Cupid but it’s worth a look since it’s free.

One disadvantage with free dating sites is girls get spammed with dick pics so they quit the site. Get their mobile number / Viber ASAP 😀

One good thing about Pinalove is the girls can upload as many pictures as they want, so that you can really see all that they have to offer. FilipinoCupid sets a limit.

It’s free to message once per 10 mins unless a girl is receiving lots of messages at the current time. Then a premium account costs $25 for month of unlimited messaging. Buy a one year membership at Pinalove and the price drops to $8/month.


#3 – AsianDating.com

This site has girls from all over Asia which is useful when travelling, a large portion of the members are Filipinas though. Some Pinays will hear about this site but not Filipino Cupid or Pinalove. At the time of writing there are ~1000 girls online. It’s one of the best general Asian dating sites out there.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

Asian Dating is good for meeting girls in Laos because Laos doesn’t have an established dating site of its own.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at Asian Dating and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#4 – FilipinoKisses.com

This Philippines dating site that requires ID verification before you can see how many members are online or set up a profile. While annoying, there’s less competition on the site for the people that go to that effort, and zero fake profiles.

Launched in 2006, this Philippines dating site has tens of thousands of sexy Pinay members, and members can use live chat and webcam features.

FilipinoKisses costs $46/month to send messages or $17/month on a yearly membership.


#5 – DateinAsia.com

DateInAsia doesn’t have an affiliate program as it’s a 100% free site, so not many bloggers will mention it. I do occasionally use it though so I will. A lot of the Asian girls using the site are Pinays.

Free Philippines dating sites can be over run with guys sending dick pics so some girls get jaded and quit the site to join one where guys have to pay. I don’t see many hotties on DIA. But it’s still worth a look.


#6 – FilipinoFriendFinder.com

FilipinoFriendFinder is the Philippines focused branch of the FriendFinder network, a California based dating agency with a dozen niche dating sites dating back to 1996.

As well as a dating site it’s an online community with a messageboard, groups for members with similar interests, member blogs and videos, chatroom, etc.

FilipinoFriendFinder doesn’t display the no. of members when I do a search for ‘Philippines’ but I can’t reach the end by clicking ‘next’, so it should be in the thousands. The homepage claims over 100,000 total members.

It’s free to create a profile, search and see girls’ main photo. Then to view detailed profiled information and send message a membership costs $13 for one month or $8/month for 3 months. For a few bucks more you can get a Gold account and rank above other members in search.


#7 – InternationalCupid.com

Another Cupidmedia site, this one still has 1000+ Filipinas when searching for Philippines profiles, as well as having a lot more girls from other countries (including some Pinays that move abroad).

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at International Cupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.

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Ladyboy Dating Sites

#8 – MyLadyboyDate.com

If you’re looking to experiment with a TS (transgender girl, aka ‘bakla’ in the Philippines) this site has ~5,000 member profiles in the Philippines alone. Across all countries it has over 11,000. MLD was founded by a French guy dating a TS Filipina.

It’s free to create a profile then to send messages MyLadyboyDate costs $30 for one month or $10/month for a one year membership.


#9 – MyTranssexualDate.com

From the makers of MyLadyboyDate, this is a less Thailand and Philippines focused one, with more TS girls from across Asia and worldwide. Good for meeting western transsexuals that might be holidaying in Asia.

It’s free to create a profile then to send messages MyTranssexualDate costs $30 for one month or $10/month for a one year membership.


Other Asia Dating Sites

#10 – ThaiCupid.com

Online dating is huge in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket and Pattaya. ThaiCupid – formerly known as ThaiLoveLinks – is the largest Thai dating site, the Thailand version of Filipino Cupid. At the time of writing there are ~1000 Thai girls online.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at Thai Cupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#11 – ThaiFriendly.com

Thailand’s version of Pinalove (same company), at the time of writing has ~1500 Thai girls online worldwide. I wrote an in-depth comparison between Thai Friendly and Thai Cupid in this post.

It’s free to message once per 10 mins unless a particular girl is receiving lots of messages at the current time. A premium account costs $25 for month of unlimited messaging. Buy a one year membership at Thaifriendly and the price drops to $8/month. With a premium account you can browse in invisible mode.


#12 – AsianKisses.de

The general Asian dating sister site of FilipinoKisses – like that site it requires ID verification before you can see how many members are online or set up a profile. That can mean less competition and fewer fake profiles once you’re in.

AsianKisses costs $46/month to send messages or $17/month on a yearly membership.


#13 – IndonesianCupid.com

The largest Indonesian dating site, Indonesia’s version of Filipino Cupid. At the time of writing there are ~1000 Indo girls online. Dante wrote a trip report of banging a virgin off Indo Cupid here. Jakarta is a great spot to live.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $25 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at Indonesian Cupid and the price drops to $8/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#14- VietnamCupid.com

The best Vietnamese dating site for foreigners, this is Vietnam’s version of Filipino Cupid. At the time of writing there are ~1000 Viet girls online.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

I wrote a post about early experiences with Vietnam Cupid here and then an in-depth example of dating a Vietnamese girl off the site from start to finish here.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at Vietnam Cupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#15 – KoreanCupid.com

The best Korean dating site for foreigners, this is Korea’s version of Filipino Cupid. At the time of writing there are ~500 Korean girls online.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at KoreanCupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#16  – JapanCupid.com

The best Japanese dating site for foreigners, this is Japan’s version of Filipino Cupid. Has 1000+ Japanese girl profiles.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at JapanCupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#17 – HongKongCupid.com

The best Hong Kong dating site for foreigners, this is Hong Kong’s version of Filipino Cupid. Has 1000+ Hong Kong girl profiles.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at HongKongCupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#18 – ChinaLoveCupid.com

The best Chinese dating site for foreigners, this is China’s version of Filipino Cupid. At the time of writing there are ~500 Chinese girls online. Formerly known as ChineseLoveLinks.

You can filter profiles by location, age, weight, height, interests, and see photos of all your matches before committing to a membership.

It’s free to create a profile and receive messages then costs $30 for one month to read and reply to girls. Buy a one year membership at ChinaLoveCupid and the price drops to $10/month. As a paying member you can also browse in invisible mode.


#19 – AsiaFriendFinder.com

The Asian version of FilipinoFriendFinder, part of the wider FriendFinder network, a California based dating agency with a dozen niche dating sites dating back to 1996.

Like FFF, as well as a dating site it’s an online community with a messageboard, groups for members with similar interests, member blogs and videos, chatroom, etc.

AsiaFriendFinder doesn’t display the no. of members in search results but there’s page after page of results, it should be in the thousands. The homepage claims over 3 million total members. There aren’t many Filipinas on the site, for those use FFF. There are lots of Asian girls in Western countries.

It’s free to create a profile, search and see girls’ main photo. Then to view detailed profiled information and send message a membership costs $13 for one month or $8/month for 3 months. For a few bucks more you can get a Gold account and rank above other members in search.


Free Philippines Dating Sites

Aside from DateInAsia and Pinalove (partially free), other free Philippines dating sites you can try are Tagged.com (more of a social network), and the Filipino personals section of Manila Craigslist. Just be careful of underage girls on Tagged or fake profiles on CL.

You can also randomly friend request Pinays on Facebook – in the Philippines girls don’t mind about that.

If you’d like to support the blog consider trying some Philippines dating sites as well via the links on this page – they tend to have hotter girls 🙂

Why use Dating Sites in the Philippines?

It is quite easy to simply strike up a conversation with Asian girls as they’re friendly and generally curious about westerners and open to dating them – especially Pinays.

However they can also be quite shy and often sign up to online dating sites to meet foreigners. Dating sites have less stigma here than back in the West – girls see them as a second Facebook, just another place to share their selfies and bikini pics. I love Filipino girls!

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Chatting to foreigners online also helps them practice their English, and gives them an opportunity to travel to other countries. Pinays in particular are often keen to get out of the Philippines and live abroad.

Even if you prefer live approaches – e.g. handing out numbers at malls – creating a profile to at least receive messages helps you meet a lot more girls in other cities. Then simply pay for a membership when you’re ready to reply.

Famous Pinay explains how guys should hit on her

There are lots of very sexy Filipinas on dating sites that want nothing more than to find a kind foreign man to take care of them. They will be very happy to take care of you in return.

No one knows how to take care of their man and keep him happy like a sexy Filipina. All you have to do is be nice to her and she will treat you like a king.

Young Filipina Dating

If you’re into young girls (but still not under 18) the Philippines is the place for you.

Some Filipina girls specifically state they’re looking for older guys or don’t care about age, a phenomenon I rarely see in other countries.

Philippines Dating Site Scams?

Avoiding scams on Philippines dating sites is pretty easy and common sense – just don’t send them large sums of money, or follow links to ‘cam shows’ etc. Ask to do a quick video call before meeting Pinays.

Quite a few Pinays do ask for money for sex on dating sites, this is pretty awesome though as they’re usually happy with around 1500 pesos ($30). They may not necessarily even be full-time prostitutes, sometimes their ‘big problem’ (family member in hospital, short on rent money, etc.) is actually true.

Filipina Dating Sites

Another young Filipina open to dating 40 year olds

It’s quite rare for a transsexual to lie about being a girl, as there are tons of guys who are in Asia looking for ladyboys / baklas. It’s a much better use of their time to openly write ‘I’m a ladyboy’ in their profile. Post-op surgery is also very rare (>90% will still have a penis).

Some Filipina girls lie and cheat like any nationality but that’s balanced out by them being hot and horny and not obese feminazis like Western chicks. Just have fun and be careful about which girls you choose for a long term relationship / marriage.

Don’t settle down with your first Filipina girlfriend. Bang as many gorgeous Filipino women as you can. Dante wrote more about minor scams on Philippines dating sites (stuff like photo filters / padded bras) here.

Filipino Dating Tips

Dante wrote ‘Filipina Girls 101’, a guide to understanding Filipino culture as it pertains to chicks, what to expect and tips on dealing with Pinays whether you’re living in the Philippines or just a tourist.

Read a free chapter here. You should find though that the Philippines is one the easiest countries in the world to get laid / find a partner. Literally anyone can have sex with attractive Filipino women.

Retiring in the Philippines is my long term plan when I get old and grey as Pinays don’t seem care in the slightest how old a guy. In fact I’ve been told ‘young guys are playboys‘ (I’m 30) by more than a few Filipinas.

Let me know your experiences with SEA / Philippines dating sites in the comments below.

Date Filipina Women Today

If I had to pick, the best Philippines dating sites are probably Filipino Cupid and AsianDating. For the price of a round of drinks in the West you can get a membership on either and date Filipina singles from day one.

Both of those Philippines dating sites also support other countries around the world – you can search 1000+ Pinay profiles in the USA, UK, UAE, Australia, 100+ in Ireland, 100+ in Russia, etc. Check out all the girls’ photos before purchase.

Affiliate disclaimer – if you sign up to Philippines dating sites via links on this page we may receive a small commission to put towards blog hosting costs. All sites we recommend are ones we trust and believe are worth buying a membership at.

30 Responses

  1. kick2dante kick2dante says:

    sure are a lot of philippines dating sites out there, some of the pinays pictured here are smoking

  2. SouthernAdventurer says:

    Koreancupid straight up sucks. There are hardly any girls on there at all and even fewer in the Philippines. I’ve had good luck on DIA actually. I’m with a girl right now from DIA. Cupid is good but Pinalove to me was crap. I messaged dozens of girls and maybe 5-10% actually messaged back. I think there are a lot of douche-bags on there so I don’t even bother with it anymore.

    Stick to Cupid/DIA is what I say. I haven’t tried asiandating though will have to try it.

    • jspill jspill says:

      Thanks for the comment. The ‘some might want 1500 pesos’ was a reference to your Cebu BJ girl 😀

      With Pinalove what you can do is install Chrome extension ‘auto refresh’ to reload browser every few seconds and keep your profile always on the front page. Then set your DOB to that day in your profile and it gives your thumbnail a ‘birthday’ message, giving girls an excuse to message you. Go out for a few hours and come back to 100 messages 🙂

      I’ll edit the KoreanCupid bit

      • SouthernAdventurer says:

        “set your DOB to that day in your profile and it gives your thumbnail a ‘birthday’ message, giving girls an excuse to message you”

        Thats genius. Going to have to try that

      • SouthernAdventurer says:

        One asked me for 1000 pesos before Christmas to buy her son some gifts. That was probably true so I didn’t mind that one. Mostly I give them cabfare (100-300 pesos depending on where they live) and maybe dinner.

      • thibault says:

        do you do it everyday for one onth in a row….
        do they even care…

        • SouthernAdventurer says:

          Not really everyday but usually a few times a week. I try to go a day or two without as it feels better when I do ;). I was seeing this one who came by every other day for a month and all I did was buy her dinner most of the time.

          • thibault says:

            and she believed it wasyour birthday everyday? hatd to believe once you know from the site they never check your profile again…

  3. -Cam says:

    Wow I never knew that there were so many dating sites. I’ve used the Thai ones to pipeline/expand my “private video collection”, but I didn’t even realize until today that you can use most dating sites to find overseas LBFMs. I think I might have to try to get me some of that take out if you know what I mean 😉 Keep up the good work jspill.

    • jspill jspill says:

      Thai girls are the most kinky IMO

      • thibault says:

        you have to expand on that.
        heard that pinay were more fun and enterprising in the bedroom.
        maybe thai do more kinky shit because they re attention whores and they know it arouses men?
        or aybe its the culture, thais are more degenerates when pinay are more traditional and are ore into natural lust?

        • harley says:

          jspill is right…. please sign the fuck up to any of these websites and starting dating instead of “arousing” us

      • jspill jspill says:

        Pinays are fun in a smiley happy way, but I mean kinky in terms of BDSM, anal, stuff like that. I’ve never had Pinays take the initiative and ask me to tie them up with ropes, cum in their mouth, stick it in their ass etc. but I have with Thai girls. I’ll do a post on that at some point

  4. harley says:

    I agree. These are 100% the best dating sites. Further more, the articles of these 2 guys are very legit and accurate.

  5. harley says:

    100% pussy guaranteend. If you don’t believe then starting reading the blogs…. genuine and approved boys!

  6. RumandCokeMan says:

    JSpill and Dante,
    That dating site promo photos bikini girl and the darker skinned big promo photo big tits one in red on the bed are stacked dime pieces- in all your SEA travels what places would have girls that hot for P4P?

  7. raaz says:

    Hi I’m 26 year old Indian guy.looking for good behavior Philippiana lady friend.

  8. thibault says:

    btw, please caption your pictures. its not good quality to not know what its supposed to represent. even if its in the text sometimes, hard to refer. a simple sentence like “this is aftzr we fucked like mad”, “this obe sucked me dry”, “thats the avzrage suze of boobs there”, “this one looks like a hooker”, “this hotel room is on the 23th floor”,” view on the slums underneath from my bacoby”, well anything to give some mood

  9. Does anyone have reviews on ThaiCupid? Considering paying for a membership. I find that I had much more success of Vietnam Cupid by virtue of signing up lol.

    • jspill jspill says:

      It’s good but I think you’re asking the readers not me as an affiliate hehe

      • I was gifted a brief membership by the site. I put my picture up and sent out messages. Some pros.

        – It’s doable. You can get LINE IDs relatively easily. 🙂
        – Minimal Textgame needed
        – Cute girls

        Some cons

        – I think some fake profiles are being used. I chat with a chick and then the site says her profile is shut off
        – English is bad
        – Site is a bit dodgy

        I haven’t tried ThaiFriendly and don’t think I will. I’ll probably stick to Phils and co.
        With a bit of effort, Thailand wouldn’t be half-bad. Waay better than my sexless existence in the US.

      • jspill jspill says:

        Very nice. Yeah I find it better than Philippines dating sites because more Thai girls have mobile 3g so they’re online more, and less flaky in turning up to dates with the better infrastructure, skytrain / subway.

        Some girls delete their profiles pretty fast when they get spammed with dick pics, or they meet a guy and he tells them to delete it (but they only set it to ‘hide’), so it might be that.

        Agree the English is bad, you have to talk in pidgin English.

        • Hmmm….your claim that Thailand (Bangkok) might be easier is plausible. These girls are pretty chill and laid back and don’t even appear to be as racist as I thought they would (not white). This is making me rethink things about the country and people in general. Only issue I have is with the scummy Aussie bros. And that’s what I can’t get over. Too many tourists.

          Gonna stack it against a few other places.

        • jspill jspill says:

          Yeah I haven’t found the average thai girl or guy racist. Know indian and black guys who do fine here

          The racist rep Thailand gets is mostly from the media (hyping up negative stories about foreigners, TV ads about whiteness), elites (protectionism), and immigration authorities (can’t get permanent residence even with Thai kids, visa hassles)

          And the other thing is no PC culture at all, Thai’s will just say things like ‘Indians smell bad’, ‘Farang come here for sex’, or ‘black guys sell drugs here’, but they’re just saying what everyone’s thinking but don’t dare say. And that are just based on their experiences.

          But then they still give individuals a chance and if you just break the ice and be nice you’re in

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