Category: Blog

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Western Men Move to Asia Because They Can’t Get Laid Back Home?

Thai gogo bar You’ve probably heard the stereotype that only the rejects of the West expatriate to countries like the Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, etc., because they ‘can’t hack it’ back home. Either they’re social misfits, can’t get laid with girls so need to move to impoverished countries, or both. Possibly they’re even criminals on the run,...

Gramercy Pool / Gym Midnight Closing Time

This sucks, both Gramercy Residence’s pool and gym used to be open 24 hours but now it’s 6am – midnight for the gym, and 6am – 23:30 for the pool. Since mid March. Someone told me about it at the time but I wanted to go see if they reversed that decision or not and they haven’t. Part...

Girls Making Money Sign with their Finger and Thumb?

Money sign?? What’s up with that? I keep seeing this more and more often on my Facebook and Line feed. Mostly either Filipina girls or Thais making the hand gesture. Thai girl doing it A Google search of ‘girls making money sign with fingers’ and such yields nothing. Doesn’t seem to be a well known meme. It has...

Getting Banned from Philippines Expat Boards – PiatNight Forum

I have mentioned before how before I go anywhere new I ask question after question on forums to be as prepared as I can be before I arrive. All of this ‘research’ has helped me save a whole lot of both time and money over the years. The problems with forums though is that people are assholes...

Guy Tells Girl Her Pics Are On This Blog, Girl Doesn’t Mind

Phuket How cool and chill are Asian girls? On the 11th I posted a story about taking a girl on a date to the beach, no nude pics, nothing offensive. Just trying to help guys with date ideas. On the 14th she messages me the link. There’s no way it’s even indexed in Google yet so...

What do White Girls think of Men that Move to Asia?

‘Actually 30’ My friend was talking to a white girl in Bangkok on Tinder. In her profile she is already making demands, no sexpats, backpackers or one night stands. I don’t mind her for not wanting ONS, fair enough she’s looking for a boyfriend. Obviously there are some rude guys on dating apps who ask for sex immediately. ‘No...

Don’t Take Your Hate for Western Women Out on Asians

Sometimes having a site like this is annoying because of some of the comments I have to read and post on here. Jspill always tells me to be friendly to commenters, but it can be hard to bite my tongue. Lets take a quick minute and be honest with ourselves: the majority of guys who want to...

Living in Vietnam First Impressions

I always like to do a ‘dear diary’ type post when I first get to a city that gives my initial impressions on it. Not only for the blog but for my own entertainment as well. Some places I initially love after a day and a month later I am like wtf was I thinking, and it...

More Visits From the Virgin

Considering my first time with this girl was up there for best days of my life I was very hopeful to get a return visit from the ex virgin I talked about in last post. She is a solid 7 and that is a big win from a dating site, then add in that she was a...

Failed Date with Rich Chick in Jakarta

Indonesian model Siva Aprilla on Instagram Third day in Jakarta I am walking through the Grand Indonesia mall which is really nice and huge and pass some very light skinned girl. I can’t tell if she is white or Indo…… but she is hot and I give her my number. An hour later we are texting and...

Treating Molluscum Contagiosum STD

So when I first moved to the Philippines I lived in Angeles City for 5 months before moving on to Manila and Cebu. I had read online that lots of guys were banging girls in Angeles without a condom and most were saying they never caught anything. I decided, perhaps unwisely, to not wrap up with some bargirls...

Arriving in Jakarta Day One

Even though not to much happened on my first day in Indonesia I still like to blog about day one in a place, as much for my own good as the people reading here. I think of this as my journal sometimes. When I arrived at the airport the immigration lines were very short, I quickly found a...

Bareback, Condoms, STDs & HIV in Philippines / SE Asia

I have been living in South East Asia for around 4 years now and had lots of unprotected sex in that time. When I first moved here I was living in Cambodia and always wearing condoms with working girls. Then as time went on it was ‘well I don’t see her working much so I will...

And I Thought Filipinos Were Rude | Thais Are Worse

In the past I wrote a post about how rude Filipinos can be. But it is more of a rudeness by ignorance than rudeness by malice. With Thai people there is a whole different level of rudeness. Thai people suck To be fair I do think Thai people are a little better about the lack of self awareness...