Author: Dante

Why I Became a Sexpat in SE Asia (Ebook)

I just got done writing an ebook about why I decided to leave the West behind and make the move to South East Asia. It ended up being twice as long as my other ebooks so I wanted to give you guys a longer sneak peek than normal. In the last section of the book I talk about the western stereotype of what a ‘hooker’ is, and the reality of what working girls in SE Asia are like. The western idea of a hooker In other words, why...

Budget Hostel in Makati Near Burgos Street

Entrance to San Agustin Residences One of the worst parts about living in the Philippines is that the hotels and condos are too expensive for what you get. A $50/night Philippines hotel room that’d be worth $30 in Thailand, Vietnam or Indonesia. A $500/month Manila condo that’d be $300 in Bangkok. And so on. However every once in awhile you can find okay value. My old pick for best value hotel was Makati Apartelle which costs 1085 pesos ($22.50) a night. Coffee shop by the entrance...

Bangkok on a Budget – Ebook Guide

In this Bangkok ebook guide I break down where to get your end away as cheaply as possible in Thailand’s capital, how to get settled in, and how to get the most out of the Gogos, massages, soapies and freelancer areas on a budget. Make your money go further in Bangkok (aka Bangers)! I also include the $340/month apartment I usually stay in, with no long term lease required, walking distance to Soi Cowboy. As always here’s a free 1000 word sneak preview. The rest is on Amazon. If you don’t have a...

My Optimal Game Plan For Living In Bangkok

I will not be living in Bangkok long term. As I have mentioned I just don’t find Thai girls attractive so it would be silly to live here. Most guys prefer the looks of Thais to Pinays, and I guess this is a good time for me to be in the minority. But Bangkok has a whole lot going for it, so I urge people who are moving to Asia to check it (and many places) out before settling on your new home. It is so...

Awkward Moments Dealing With Filipina Girls

If you spend too much time in one city eventually you will be handing your number out to girls you have already tried in the past. Even in a city of millions of people if you frequent the same places it is bound to happen. Recently I have had a few awkward moments in this situation and since its always fun to laugh at a dork I will let you guys laugh at me now. Again? As I am walking past a call center office...

Met A Good Girl In Angeles City

Hey guys, been traveling a lot this year so decided to get back to the Philippines content and post something from back in the day before I started this blog. It’s about a time when I met a good girl in Angeles City who was way out of her element. I wrote this on a messageboard before and think the writing from that day will be far better than me re-writing it. So think of this as a journal entry and that is why there...

Handing out Numbers in BKK & Dumped by a Thai Girl

As I am traveling around Asia there are a few things I am trying to figure out. First I am looking for a unicorn fantasyland filled with 8s and 9′ that all give great blowjobs and will come to my room for free or for under $50. So far I haven’t found that place, but I will keep looking. I am also trying to see how my different strategies for picking up girls in the Philippines will work in other countries. After being in Cebu for...

Picked Up A Thai Uni Girl On The BTS

I am writing this as I wrap up my month in Bangkok. I still have a few days left but for the most part my time here is over. I got a UTI right in the middle of it which slowed me down a bit, but all in all it was an OK month. As many readers know my style is to hand a girl with a note and my phone number on it and hope that they text me and that I can then...

“Partying” in the Bangkok Nightlife

OK OK I don’t really party, but this night was about as close as I get to doing so. Over the last 2 weeks I had basically done nothing at all because I had a UTI but I was finally finished with my meds and clear of it so it was time to head out into the Bangkok nightlife. I messaged my buddy who lives here and asked him if he wanted to head to Nana Plaza later because I wanted to watch some girls...

A Good Time To Take A Trip To Asia

It is always a good time to take a trip to Asia, but now is a very cheap time to visit as well. The dollar is strong and the local currencies are weak. That means great value for you. When I first moved to the Philippines when I would trade in a $100 bill I got 4,200 pesos. I felt like I was getting great value everywhere I went and I was, but it pales in comparison to what it is like now. Get A...

Day In The Life of a Bangkok Expat

Well so far my Bangkok trip has been a bit of a bore. I got a UTI right in the middle of it and it took me out of any action for quite some time. Because I have no other life I am still trolling ThaiFriendly, ThaiCupid and the malls looking for future bangs once the meds do their thing. But other then that I have been doing nothing. Finally yesterday I had a semi interesting day for a day in the life post. Nothing...

Men’s Stories About Living in Asia on Blogs / Forums

Before I moved to Asia I spent a lot of time reading sexpat messageboards and blogs about Asia and the Philippines. Trip reports of other guys’ experiences banging girls, whether from dating sites or bars. Bangkok Gogo dancer via Club Electric Blue Lots of guys were sharing their stories, and many of theirs have turned out to be way different than mine. Some of them are just obvious BS the guys were making up, others may have actually been true. I’ll start with some of the more outlandish ones...

Special Massage in Thailand Prices & Pro Tips

The best value for sex in Thailand is arguably in the smaller massage shops.  They’re all over every city you visit, there are thousands and thousands of women working in them, and most get very few customers. So when they do get a customer they will be willing to go that extra mile and give a special massage to get a tip because it is one of their few chances to earn.  That tip always doesn’t need to be a huge one. Thailand Sex Massage Tips...

My First Soapy Massage in Bangkok – Nataree

One of the things that I was really looking forward to checking out for my loyal readers was a soapy massage (‘ab ob nuad’) in Bangkok. If I was just traveling through Thailand and had no blog to write on I doubt I would pay for one. But I know what the readers want and I must deliver. What I expected Everyone on the Thailand nightlife message boards said Nataree is the best place for a soapy and I might as well go for the...